| json_metadata | "{"app":"musing/1.1","appTags":["Love"],"appCategory":"Love","appTitle":"Are you the type that is difficult be loved by someone or you difficult to love someone?","appBody":"<p> I guess I belong to the first category. Even though I am not a total hermit, I may be quite antisocial at times and when it comes to working as a partner some of my personality traits and probably some genetic snags do not make me the easiest guy to get along with.</p>\n<p>I tend to go against things most people agree with</p>\n<p>That alone irritates any partner. Even though I do my best to respct others' views and respect people's opinion to the point that I am always the first to give up an argument if that means avoiding a fight, I tend to be perceived as arrogant, pesimistic, or even indifferent to people's dramas.</p>\n<p>In love relationships I can be very introvertive and not very communicative. That is a big problem with most women. I am just not very good at casual conversation. I spend too much time reading (for my culture's standards). For me that tme is barely the time I need to remind my brain that it is alive and capable of critical thinking. Most people I know do not like to read. That different alone cna be a big obstacle at the time of being loved.</p>\n<p>In a culture that tends to be very sociable and spontaneous, where people like to drop by without previous notice and where most discussions go around politics, religion or sports, it is very hard for an introvert to be liked. I do not know many women in my culture who are atheist, for instance, let alone women who could not care less about what people think about them in terms of physical appearance, fashion choices, consumerism, senseless celebrations, or social interaction.</p>\n<p>To hold those views is obviously going to make me into a hard-to-love person</p>","appDepth":2,"appParentPermlink":"p32hkkfaq","appParentAuthor":"ijoel","musingAppId":"aU2p3C3a8N","musingAppVersion":"1.1","musingPostType":"answer"}" |
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