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| json_metadata | "{"app":"musing/1.1","appTags":["kids","family","facebook","parenting","life"],"appCategory":"kids","appTitle":"Does Facebook make you a bad parent?","appBody":"<p>I make a conscious decision not to use the computer for personal (or work) use around the children. I only see them for a couple hours after work and on the weekends, since they go to bed at 7:30 and 8:30. Not to mention the pile of other more important stuff that needs to get done around the house (cleaning, chores, cooking, home repair, etc). There's no reason that I absolutely need to be on Facebook, emailing or working in the few hours I have with the kids -- I should be present for that.</p>\n<p>There are, of course, exceptions. If the baby is napping and the preschooler is watching a TV show, I don't feel bad about hopping on and checking up on email or Facebook. But just as we cut off the TV after 30 minutes for the preschooler, I need to lead by example and shut down the computer. It sends a mixed message to the kids that it's OK for mommy or daddy to sit in front of the computer for hours, but it's not OK for the kids to do it.</p>\n<p>Another exception is to spend time on the computer with the preschooler, for example going to the pbskids website for twenty minutes and printing out some pictures to color.</p>\n<p>Also, we've noticed it's very easy to \"lose\" an hour of time when the computer is on and there are still dishes to clean up, lunches to make, etc. We've been trying to limit parental computer use until AFTER the nightly chores are done. Otherwise, the computer proves too much of a distraction and Facebook certainly isn't going to get the dishes in the dishwasher or fold the laundry.</p>","appDepth":2,"appParentPermlink":"f3auxfncq","appParentAuthor":"hnub","musingAppId":"aU2p3C3a8N","musingAppVersion":"1.1","musingPostType":"answer"}" |
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| json_metadata | "{"app":"musing/1.1","appTags":["kids","family","facebook","parenting","life"],"appCategory":"kids","appTitle":"Does Facebook make you a bad parent?","appBody":"<p>Your story is something like every mothers story. I also have a toddler. I can understand your feeling.</p>\n<p>I used to use facebook and other social media platform too often few months back. But now I totally stop using all of those useless entertainment. I am sorry for my word, but I have faced some struggle that's why I am talking like this.</p>\n<p>Facebook was like an addiction to me. You can not disconnect it if you once log in into it. There is so many things happening and I was like scroll, scroll and scroll. When my little one nag or refused to eat or do not want to go sleep quickly, it felt like I am loosing my time for my facebooking. And I sometimes was hursh to him as he was not acting like a good boy. </p>\n<p> Then one day, I was chatting with a old friend and he was very attention seeking that time. I got so angry that I screamed at him and through my phone off. After few minutes, I realized what I am doing wrong. And after that incident, I stop using facebook.</p>\n<p>My case was extreme. If you can balance between your use and giving time to your kids, it is ok. At least there are many good benefits of social media. But I personally do not support using any devices in front of kids mainly toddler. They are restless and seek much attention. It is better to share some other useful thing on that time like tv, or kids video. Those I am following not.</p>\n<p>So the accurate answer to your question would be -Yes, if you are doing it wrongly in wrong moments. Buy No- if you can balance between your life and can give time to facebook. Which is very hard I found personally. </p>\n<p>Stay blessed. Have a great day.</p>","appDepth":2,"appParentPermlink":"f3auxfncq","appParentAuthor":"hnub","musingAppId":"aU2p3C3a8N","musingAppVersion":"1.1","musingPostType":"answer"}" |
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