| json_metadata | "{"app":"musing/1.1","appTags":["Love","relationship",""],"appCategory":"Love","appTitle":"Would you give your partner a second chance if he/she cheats on you?","appBody":"<p><br></p>\n<p><img src=\"http://cdn2.tstatic.net/bangka/foto/bank/images/ilustrasi-pasangan-selingkuh_20170818_073014.jpg\" /></p>\n<p>Image source: http://bangka.tribunnews.com/2017/10/16/kenali-bentuk-bentuk-perselingkuhan-dan-hukumnya-menurut-islam</p>\n<p>***</p>\n<p>There are many cases of infidelity that occur today. And sometimes it is also neutralized on social media about infidelity and this case deserves to be highlighted by the public. Some people were angry and pelted women who cheated on them using Rp 100,000 and Rp 150,000 in cash. There are also women who blatantly beat women who reject husband's affair in the middle of the road to create traffic jams.</p>\n<p>Infidelity is indeed a cruel act that is painful and very heartbreaking. If I find my partner cheating on me, will I forgive and give him a second chance?</p>\n<p>Infidelity means betraying the sanctity of love and relationships that have been nurtured.</p>\n<p>However, we as humans who are given common sense certainly have choices and ways to solve problems. In the sense that everyone must have a choice in solving a problem. In this case, we have a choice between facing an affair with emotions or in a calm, gentle and classy way.</p>\n<p>Psychologically, there are some more elegant ways to deal with an affair partner.</p>\n<ol>\n <li><strong>Hold yourself, don't react immediately</strong></li>\n</ol>\n<p>The first thing that needs to be done when we find out or catch our partner having an affair is to calm down and do not rush to take reactive action. Set your breath and try to use the principle of presumption of innocence, because it could be our suspicion is wrong.</p>\n<p>Then collect the evidence. Then think for a moment to think about the best steps and the best solution. If necessary, we can ask friends or trusted people to give a choice of steps we must take. \"If you really want to, you can go to your spouse and the suspect is the spouse. Introduce yourself well and involve yourself in the conversation while observing their interactions. If something makes us uncomfortable, talk to our partners on separate occasions using good communication \".</p>\n<p>2. <strong>Discuss and break relationships</strong></p>\n<p>Infidelity occurs not because of the actor's factor but also because of the response from our partner. So we have to talk to our partners carefully, to know what caused him to decide to worry about our relationship.</p>\n<p>Usually people who are betrayed will position themselves as victims. However, it is important for couples. How is the interaction with husband or wife all this time? Are there aspects that need to be improved in conjugal relations? This is important to find out the cause of the problem, to minimize problems that can occur again in the future.</p>\n<p>3. <strong>Think mature to make the best decisions</strong></p>\n<p>Indeed the wound of betrayal is sometimes too to make us calm, instead of healing it. But before getting angry and deciding to split up thinking first, think about what we will accept. Think about whether there is still the intention to return or give it a second chance, and improve the existing cracks? Or is there really no way to fix it? But one thing that must be considered is that divorce will affect the children and family of both parties. Financial status, future plans and so on must also be carefully considered. If necessary, ask for professional help such as a marriage counselor to get the best solution.</p>\n<p>I think these 3 ways are the wisest solution to overcoming and confronting couples who cheat.</p>\n<p><strong>***Be wise***</strong></p>\n<p><br></p>","appDepth":2,"appParentPermlink":"f38h7s6sw","appParentAuthor":"gozzy","musingAppId":"aU2p3C3a8N","musingAppVersion":"1.1","musingPostType":"answer"}" |
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