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@anonsteve · (edited)
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As a man or woman, can you marry a man who is impotent or a woman who have no womb? if yes, what are the reasons? if no, what are the reasons?
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@chrisrice · (edited)
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As a man or woman, can you marry a man who is impotent or a woman who have no womb? if yes, what are the reasons? if no, what are the reasons?
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@hlezama ·
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