json_metadata | "{"app":"Musing","appTags":["Nationbuilding","self","recognition"],"appCategory":"Nationbuilding","appTitle":"Is tution system good for children or parents should teach them ?","appBody":"<p><br></p>\n<p><img src=\"http://www.cadenadial.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/02/Foto-ni%C3%B1os.jpg\" /></p>\n<p><br></p>\n<p><br></p>\n<p>Children and teenagers today are more rude than ever. It seems that families do not fulfill their function of educating. Although it may not be something so new, because I believe that this has always happened, my grandparents also believed that young people did not have (good) education; My parents also believed it and many citizens over 40 believe it today. Going to eat with children in a restaurant, for example, can be more stressful for parents than passing a public notary exam. The waiters, the other clients, the parents sitting at other tables evaluate them, examine whether their children are (well) educated or not.</p>\n<p><br></p>\n<p><br></p>\n<p>The education of the children of the family seems to me a risky thing to define when a (correctly) educated child seems to be the one who does not bother a child with the curiosity and concern of his age. Therefore, if the child is given a mobile phone or a tablet so that he does not bother the restaurant, many people will be happy, some will even think he is blessed, but I think that parents are aware that this is the case. is not true. education (of good).</p>\n<p><br></p>\n<p>The idea that one educates at home and learns at school has been generalized and accepted. Every time I hear that phrase, something inside is removed. I think the phrase in question creates a non-recommended separation. According to this statement, children and adolescents must arrive (well) educated from their homes to school, so that the teacher can do their job, that of teaching, in a correct manner. Education and teaching are presented as two distinct functions with divorced leaders: parents and teachers.</p>\n<p><br></p>\n<p>Then it happens that when neither parents nor students have the (good) education necessary to live together in a peaceful and respectful way, there are situations that lead teachers to fatigue. I suppose if my grandparents had lived in the digital era, I would have written a post complaining about discourteous disciples who laughed out loud at their master classes. Although I think that at that time, the function of educating (good), resided more in schools than in homes, where parents were not yet obliged to take full responsibility for education.</p>\n<p><br></p>\n<p>I would love that not only children, but also adults, were (well) educated people, who did not? It would facilitate our personal and professional life enormously. Also, families end up fed up with some rude adults when, at the time of educating (well) our children, we find differences that irritate us, even within the same family. Sometimes parents do not like how grandparents, or uncles, or neighbors, or teachers, or the parents of other school children act. But we have to live with it.</p>\n<p><br></p>\n<p><img src=\"http://necesitodetodos.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/educacion-integral.jpg\" /></p>\n<p><br></p>\n<p>Many parents, to name a few, do not like it when they are crossing the street with their young children, while waiting for the little man - or woman because the traffic lights also educate, turn green, get a pedestrian and skip it in red. They do not like that after telling their children that smoking kills and that is why the grandfather of his best friend has died, his uncle appears with a cigarette in his mouth. They do not like to know that although they are inculcating their little ones that violent video games are despicable, when they go to a friend's house they get fed up to play Call of Duty. But unless you educate your children like Viggo Mortensen to yours in Captain Fantastic you'll have to resign yourself to living with it. It is the wonderful society that we have built.</p>\n<p><br></p>\n<p><br></p>\n<p><img src=\"http://www.gamehackstudios.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/Call-of-Duty-Modern-Warfare-3-Crack-PC-Full-Version-Free-Download.jpg\" /></p>\n<p><br></p>\n<p>So, when children are not (well) educated at home, where are they educated? Is education restricted to family responsibility? Is it true that schools have only the function of teaching? Fortunately, there is an important sector of the educational community that thinks, as José Antonio Marina affirms with assiduity, that to educate a child, the entire tribe is needed. According to this African proverb, we educate all and teach all. For better or worse. The media educate, television, the behavior of spectators and players in a football match, the reactions of parents to a family conflict, work or school are leaving their mark on children. We are a model. It depends on us whether we are a good model or a bad model.</p>\n<p><br></p>\n<p>I know that when you say that you are educated at home, it is understood that you mean that you are well educated at home, so I have been putting parentheses throughout the article, because when you talk about a child being educated, it is understood as positive . When we talk about education, by default we mean good education. If we want to make clear that we speak of bad education, we say it explicitly.</p>\n<p><br></p>\n<p><img src=\"http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_N24NBbxateU/TT8wgHLvrkI/AAAAAAAAABE/sGi6K2hrKA0/s1600/RINC%25C3%2593N+DE+LECTURA.jpg\" /></p>\n<p><br></p>\n<p>I do not send my children to school just to learn, as if they were empty containers that have to be filled with content, I do not think it is possible that they come only from the school with new knowledge without having left anything else; I do not want my role to be just to educate, I think I can also teach my children a lot. I think it would be a shame if the parents did not teach and if the teachers did not educate, there would be many good opportunities wasted.</p>\n<p><br></p>\n<p>If we want well-educated children and adolescents, I think we should start by being self-critical, and assume our responsibility as educators since they are small. Even if you do not have children or do not work with them, they are part of society, and you have a responsibility. Education is in everyone's hands.</p>\n<p><br></p>\n<p>Almost all children live with a family and go through a school, so it is in both places, at home and at school, that the greatest impact on their education will be produced. If one of the two weakens, I think the other should try to give that child the opportunity to enjoy a good education. If at home you do not educate, something that, however regrettable it may seem, happens, I want to believe that children are receiving an education in schools. At least the school should be a place where all children, regardless of their social status, were given the opportunity to receive not only knowledge but also a good education. So that when they reach adolescence, they are well-educated young people. And if it is not achieved, I do not believe that the failure is only of the boy and his parents.</p>\n<p><br></p>","appDepth":2,"appParentPermlink":"f3q4qf28x","appParentAuthor":"faizazohaib","musingAppId":"aU2p3C3a8N","musingAppVersion":"1.1","musingPostType":"answer"}" |
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