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| author | hermannsol |
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| json_metadata | "{"app":"musing/1.1","appTags":["life","child","brothers","sisters","family","kids"],"appCategory":"life","appTitle":"Which one do you think is better- having brothers/sisters or being an only child?","appBody":"<p>Answering this based on a personal opinion and the relatiinship experience i have had with my siblings, i will say having brothers/sisters is better. I don't know what life would have been like if i was an only child. The excitement happiness f having a sibling to play with, protect you, probide for you etc.</p><p>In my case for example, I am the last child and how i love that. I have had so much fun when i am with my siblings and they are always so keen to meet all my needs, are always there when i need them or anyyhing. They have been great mentors, advisors, elders etc.</p><p>They have played a major part in molding me into the person i am today and everyday, I am grateful for the siblings God has blessed me with. My arents could never have realized it on their own into moldinge into who i am today. </p>","appDepth":2,"appParentPermlink":"p3uyd5bzq","appParentAuthor":"kumo","musingAppId":"aU2p3C3a8N","musingAppVersion":"1.1","musingPostType":"answer"}" |
| created | 2018-12-30 16:53:36 |
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| author | hlezama |
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| json_metadata | "{"app":"musing/1.1","appTags":["life","child","brothers","sisters","family","kids"],"appCategory":"life","appTitle":"Which one do you think is better- having brothers/sisters or being an only child?","appBody":"<p> </p>\n<p>I think that having siblings is the best way to live in this world of ours. Being exceptional or belonging to a minority is never a good thing in our world. Most people (with the possible exception of Chinese people who have a legal restriction on bringing children to the world) have siblings and that adds many dimensions to our lives. It is uncomfortable when, after some time, people realize they cannot tell what it is like to be a brother or sister, an uncle or aunt, a bother/sister-in-law.</p>\n<p>Of course, being an only child is βan accidentalβ occurrence in most instances. I know that some couples intentionally decide to have only one child, but most couples leave it to chance or circumstances. In that case, only children tend to feel lucky because they do not have to share love and possessions with siblings, but deep down there is an emotional void no friends or other relatives can fully fill.</p>\n<p>Having siblings becomes training for adulthood. By having to deal with other characters, personalities, interest, etc. we warm up with what will be life as adults. To deal with classmates, work mates and life partners can be easy if we have had that negotiating training in the household. An only child does not know what that feels like.</p>\n<p>Company is a human basic need and if you are an only child whose parents work, loneliness will be a common denominator. That being said, some studies have argued that being an only child can actually be advantageous (<a href=\"https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2018/may/31/truth-about-only-children-insular-confident-worry\">https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2018/may/31/truth-about-only-children-insular-confident-worry</a>). That may be the case considering some complexes derived from sibling rivalry or parental preference of one child over another.</p>\n<p>Thus, I guess, every case will tell whether being an only child is better or not. Iβd vote for having siblings because of all the emotional connections that can be achieved though the diversification of family relations, aside from the very fact that the perpetuation of a family name depend on the possibility of adding more family members. </p>","appDepth":2,"appParentPermlink":"p3uyd5bzq","appParentAuthor":"kumo","musingAppId":"aU2p3C3a8N","musingAppVersion":"1.1","musingPostType":"answer"}" |
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| author | kouba01 |
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| json_metadata | "{"app":"musing/1.1","appTags":["life","child","brothers","sisters","family","kids"],"appCategory":"life","appTitle":"Which one do you think is better- having brothers/sisters or being an only child?","appBody":"<p>Both situations have advantages and disadvantages. I am an only child, so I will bring my vision of things.</p>\n<ul>\n <li>For the benefits, most during childhood according to me:</li>\n <li>The fact of not having additional pseudo-responsibilities, such as taking care of your little brother or little sister. We are much freer!</li>\n <li>No situation where one is better loved by his parents than the other. All the love of your parents is for you and you alone!</li>\n <li>You can eat / drink lots of stuff without having to share</li>\n <li>Since you have no one else to blame, if you make a mistake, you learn much more quickly not to do it again because you know you're wrong</li>\n</ul>\n<p>For the disadvantages, I found only one, but it is big:</p>\n<ul>\n <li>If you have trouble making friends, you may find yourself alone for a long time, which can impact mental health very early</li>\n</ul>","appDepth":2,"appParentPermlink":"p3uyd5bzq","appParentAuthor":"kumo","musingAppId":"aU2p3C3a8N","musingAppVersion":"1.1","musingPostType":"answer"}" |
| created | 2018-12-31 11:30:33 |
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| author | mrsbozz |
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| json_metadata | "{"app":"musing/1.1","appTags":["life","child","brothers","sisters","family","kids"],"appCategory":"life","appTitle":"Which one do you think is better- having brothers/sisters or being an only child?","appBody":"<p>I am not an expert here, especially when it comes to being an only child. I grew up with an older sister and two younger brothers.</p>\n<p>With the holidays just passing, I wouldn't change my family for anything. I can't imagine what the holidays would be like if it were only my parents, myself, and my husband. My siblings and their families are what makes our family. The laughter, the tears, the frustration and the love are what is so amazing about being part of a large family. </p>\n<p>My siblings also bring my six nieces and nephews to the mix. Without siblings, where do people get to experience being an aunt or uncle? My friends have kids and I am T.T. to them as well, but there isn't anything like a niece coming to you for advice, or and nephew thinking your husband is a real superhero because he can answer weird questions or help create a Lego masterpiece. </p>\n<p>Even when we were younger and my siblings and I fought. I don't think I really ever thought being an only child would be better. I loved being around my younger brothers. Our neighborhood had so many kids and we all hung out. What would that be like to experience it on my own? If I were an only child who would I have to help get me out of trouble or distract mom and dad from my mistakes ?</p>\n<p>I love having siblings. Again, I am not an expert however, I do know what it feels like to have a large family that give me unconditional love. </p>","appDepth":2,"appParentPermlink":"p3uyd5bzq","appParentAuthor":"kumo","musingAppId":"aU2p3C3a8N","musingAppVersion":"1.1","musingPostType":"answer"}" |
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| author | ohmygoodness |
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