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| author | akaola |
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| json_metadata | "{"app":"Musing","appTags":["Partnership"],"appCategory":"Partnership","appTitle":"What are the things to consider if we want to get a good partner?","appBody":"<p><br></p>\n<p><img src=\"https://imgix.bustle.com/uploads/image/2017/10/6/29f20c3e-b427-49cd-b566-97d48d65a2c9-fotolia_141278721_subscription_monthly_m-1.jpg?w=970&h=582&fit=crop&crop=faces&auto=format&q=70\" /></p>\n<p>Regardless of whether it feels like you know your accomplice all around, the clever thing about being in a long haul relationship is that you're continually adapting new things about one another. It could be something as unimportant as finding they despise lemon in their water, or something as critical as getting some answers concerning their mystery want to figure out how to pilot a plane — on the off chance that you adore your accomplice, any new goody of data about them will appear to be an energizing disclosure. So what are a few things you should think about your accomplice? Beside the self-evident, similar to their view on getting hitched or having children, there are a huge amount of seemingly insignificant details that you can request that your accomplice enable you to draw nearer — in light of the fact that the better you know one another, the more personal your relationship will move toward becoming.</p>\n<p>\"Closeness, by definition, is shared mystery learning,\" Steven Ward, dating, relationship and way of life master, tells Bustle. \"Enthusiastic and physical closeness include sharing something profoundly close to home. Be helpless against see powerless. Be available to see open. On the off chance that you need to draw nearer to somebody disclose to them something that not very many, assuming any, other individuals know.\"</p>\n<p>On the off chance that you've effectively shared all your profound, dull insider facts with your accomplice, don't fuss: there's continually something new to find out around each other — you simply need to comprehend what to request that and what themes investigate. Here are 26 things you may not yet think about your accomplice that you ought to dive into ASAP on the off chance that you need to frame a significantly closer association and become more acquainted with one another and also you know yourselves (or nearly that well).</p>","appDepth":2,"appParentPermlink":"pk88vs8dx","appParentAuthor":"macaronibu","musingAppId":"aU2p3C3a8N","musingAppVersion":"1.1","musingPostType":"answer"}" |
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| author | francistagbo |
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| json_metadata | "{"app":"Musing","appTags":["Partnership"],"appCategory":"Partnership","appTitle":"What are the things to consider if we want to get a good partner?","appBody":"<p>There are actually a lot of things to consider when you're trying to get a new partner. It's not easy picking the right person to be with, and nobody wants to waste their time on a person who's only going to end up being a regret or a distant memory at some point in time. Whatever the case, here's my list of things to consider when you're looking for a new partner.</p><p>1. Compatibility: This is probably one of the if not most important thing to consider. Love can make you guys work for a while but if you aren't compatible then there's no future in the relationship. You need to know if you guys like the same things, or if you guys compliment each other. There's no point trying to make it work with someone who has absolutely different values from yours, at first the concept of opposites attract may hold, but it won't last. Your similarities will have to step in at some point.</p><p>2. Family Values: The person that you plan on being with should probably have the same family values as you do and that's because if both of you eventually decide to start a family, your idea and their idea of how a family should be have to align with each other. Ask questions about their own family and listen to their responses, you'll know if you guys share the same values from there.</p><p>3. Past relationships: This is probably one of the best ways to find out about a person's character as well as how they behave when they're in a relationship. Ask them about their friendships and past lovers and watch and see if they'll say good things or bad things about their friends and past lovers. If they say good things or try to be objective in the way they make their evaluations then that's a good sign, but if they're being extremely negative about the whole thing then that's a bad sign.</p><p>4. Generosity: People generally become more generous when they're in love and that's a fact. Watch just how generous your partner becomes as you guys start loving up, it'll give you insight into just how much generosity will be left when the love starts to fade or at least normalise. This is very important because if they don't show any significant form of generosity at the start then chances are that it'll only get worse from then on </p><p>5. Anger management: There's absolutely no way that you won't anger your partner at one point or another, determining how the person reacts when they're angry is very important when choosing a partner. People who can't control their anger are more than likely to be abusive partners and should be avoided. Watch how they react to anger and disappointment and you'll get a sneak peak at how they'll treat you when they're upset.</p><p>6. Life goals: Their life goals and objectives should be in tact and on track whether or not you're in the picture. Their dream and aspirations should be something that they're trying to achieve and that should be something that they'll be working towards doing with or without you. Working on themselves should also be a priority for them, you can't move forward as a person unless you're willing to do that, so watch out for people who are always trying to improve themselves, If you ask me, they make the best partners.</p><p>I hope this helps.</p>","appDepth":2,"appParentPermlink":"pk88vs8dx","appParentAuthor":"macaronibu","musingAppId":"aU2p3C3a8N","musingAppVersion":"1.1","musingPostType":"answer"}" |
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| author | rasamuel |
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| json_metadata | "{"app":"Musing","appTags":["Partnership"],"appCategory":"Partnership","appTitle":"What are the things to consider if we want to get a good partner?","appBody":"<p>Let's start with COMFORTABILITY AND COMPATIBILITY. A good partner is always one whom you're comfortable and compatible with. So from the go you look out for signs on how comfortable you are with each other. Do you feel at ease when he or she is around? Can you be yourself around them? Do you like to be goofy? Can you be goofy with them? Are they tge judgy type? etc. </p><p>The other thing is compatibility. Which is another different metric on its own. Like I always say don't look for a partner with whom you have EVERY SINGLE LITTLE thing in common. This would become a very boring and vapid relationship.</p><p>Of course it sort of goes without saying that you shouldn't find a partner with which you have nothing in common either. This would make for a very tumultuous unhealthy affair. But the best relationships are between people who find themselves in the middle way. People who share a lot in common but still complement each other. So that's what you should look out for. A partner who completes you; who makes you whole. </p><p>A partner with which you share the things you love with and also shares with you. A partner who teaches you things you never knew before, who makes you take up new habits and ways of life. One who expands your horizon.</p><p>Another thing to look for in a partner is the communication factor. Is the suitor solitary by nature? Does he or she feel apathetic towards expressing their feelings? Is it that they don't even know just how to? </p><p>Of course it's fine if they are because we are all different. But oral communications is not the only form of communication there is. There are also other forms of communications which includes body languages and telepathic communications. If you can't tell your partner how you feel, show them. Don't hide it. Sometimes your entire relationship will hang on the balance just because of a wrong glance, or a prolonged silence. Which is why you should communicate, even if it's to communicate your lack of communication. It may go a long way!</p><p>Then we have TRUST.</p><p>Trust is the true foundation of any good relationship. And to achieve trust, we must go by no other way than that of honesty; so in choosing a partner choose a partner with pure and complete honesty! </p><p>Lack of honesty in a partner brings about lack of trust and lack of trust there's brings about weak foundations which makes any relationship crumble. A good partner should posses this honesty and trustworthiness, because they will be needed. Only with these can relationship endure trials and challenges that will no doubt happen along the way. </p><p>Just one moment of lie might ruin decades of trust. </p><p>Another thing is to find a partner whom you're comfortable SHARING things with. Like I said, share ideas. Share visions. Expand each other's horizon. Make each other stronger. It is a sign of that compatibility factor mentioned earlier.</p><p>It never really starts off --and probably should never start off--as both of you being extremely perfect for each other in every single way. When this happens there really is no room for improvement and you get tired of each other pretty quickly. But finding someone with the little imperfection that matches your own imperfection and with little flaws that you can improve and also have your own flaws improved by them is a rather important pre requisite for a healthy, long lasting relationship. </p><p>A final thing to look for--which is also a trait that is needed mostly way to achieve all these named above-- is MATURITY and UNDERSTANDING. A mature and understanding partner will not only most probably possess all the above mentioned characteristics, but would also be willing, should they not, to work on themselves and work with you to achieve said goals!</p><p>Hope the answer helps. Cheers.</p>","appDepth":2,"appParentPermlink":"pk88vs8dx","appParentAuthor":"macaronibu","musingAppId":"aU2p3C3a8N","musingAppVersion":"1.1","musingPostType":"answer"}" |
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| author | zaicha |
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