| json_metadata | "{"app":"Musing","appTags":["Family"],"appCategory":"Family","appTitle":"What is the most common reasons why some couples cheat on each other?","appBody":"<p>Quite a few reasons I can think of. And as it happens they also seem to go hand in hand with why relationships work out. So consequently we'll be examining them side by side.</p><p>First I'll start by acknowledging that every relationship has its peculiarities. And there is no all encompassing reasons pertinent to all relationships; which is why I'll try to be as diverse as possible. But first to determine the peculiarity of his or her relationship, a partner must ask his or herself questions like: Does this person have a history of cheating? Is it a one time thing? Do I have a hand in it?</p><p>It is easy for the person cheated upon to feel so much pain that he or she begins to self project; i.e they begin to blame it all on themselves, and this may be the case: that the cheated partner may really have had a role to play, but it is not very healthy to choose to place all the blame on oneself.</p><p>So to begin let us choose the first reason as the cheater been pushed to cheating by the other partner. It may be from negligence. It may be from non chalance. It may even be that the person has something else taking his or her attention. Whatever reason it may be it is highly common that when the other partner senses this neglect, and isn't getting the kind of attention he or she feels they deserve in the relationship they start to look elsewhere, even if a little.</p><p>There is no excuse for cheating of course but in a serious relationship each party has a quota to contribute, and without this equal attention and contribution from both sides, the relationship might be fated fir disaster right from the start. </p><p>***</p><p>Lack of Trust: </p><p>Trust is definitely one of the most important things in a relationship. There WILL be tough challenging situations thrown at you. Situations that will require great trust. Because in life nothing is black and white; you may have been spited, or feel as though you have been.</p><p>It takes great trust for one to take a step back and re-examine situations. And it is only after you have given the other person the benefit of the doubt before you can take this stance. So trust is definitely a cornerstone of any relationship, and it is when this starts to lack that problems arise and partners are forced to seek elsewhere for happiness. </p><p>***</p><p>Honesty: </p><p>This again is related to the two above. Without honesty there's obviously no trust. Without trust partners cheat. Again without honesty and trust partners feel alienated, leading to the the number one above. </p><p>***</p><p>Communication: </p><p>To me this is perhaps the most important thing in a relationship. All the above mentioned factors are always going to be related to this--either directly or indirectly. </p><p>Without communication there will be alienation. Without communication there will be no trust. The very act of honesty requires one to communicate one's true feelings as it happens the way it happens.</p><p>Just as communication can make a relationship stronger, the lack of it can also break it up.</p><p>***</p><p>Lack of Control and Promiscuity. </p><p>Seeing as all these while in my answers I've been trying to be as liberal as possible it's only right that I should end it on this note. Some people are just promiscuous by nature and their eyes cant help but wander.</p><p>To this people no matter how honest abd trustworthy, and beautiful and communicative their partners are, they WILL still cheat. It's just in their blood.</p><p>***</p><p>So there you have it, the reasons people cheat. Cheers!</p>","appDepth":2,"appParentPermlink":"pk5bcfbdx","appParentAuthor":"ogaigbalode","musingAppId":"aU2p3C3a8N","musingAppVersion":"1.1","musingPostType":"answer"}" |
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