| json_metadata | "{"app":"Musing","appTags":["Relationship"],"appCategory":"Relationship","appTitle":"What are the basic things to look for in a serious relationship?","appBody":"<p>What one should look for in a relationship are the very factors that make a relationship work. Without these factors most relationship are fated from the start. Some of them are listed below.</p><p>I'll start with comfortabilty. A sign of a good relationship is how comfortable the parties in that relationship are with each other. And this is one thing one should seek when entering a relationship. A partner you're comfortable with. Like I said in an answer I gave on musing a while back, a good relationship is not neccesarily one where the partners have EVERYTHING in common.</p><p>This would make for a very boring relationship that gets vapid quick. Neither of course is a good relationship between people who have nothing in common. This would make for a very tumultuous unhealthy affair. But the best relationships are between people who find themselves in the middle way. People who share a lot in common but still complement each other. </p><p>So that not only are they able to share the things they love with each other, they are also able to teach themselves things and take up new things and new ways of life from each other. </p><p>Another thing one should find in a relationship is Good Communication, which of course is harder than most people think, because some people are solitary, some just don't like to talk, some don't even know how to express our feelings--which is why communication should not be limited to oral forms alone but multiple forms, including body languages and telepathic communications. If you can't tell your partner how you feel, show them. Don't hide it. </p><p>You should find a partner whom you're comfortable sharing things with, in any if not all of these ways. All these are signs of a healthy relationship. </p><p>Another important thing to look for in a relationship is sharing. Good partners in a healthy relationship share things with each other and not just material things, but also visions and ideals and their ideas. And thereby make each other stronger. </p><p>Look for a partner with this characteristic, who's ready to share his knowledge and ideas and views with you and you're on your way to a happy healthy relationship. </p><p>Then we have Trust: which is cornerstone of any good relationship. And to achieve trust, you go by no other way than that of honesty; pure complete honesty! Lack of honesty brings about lack of trust and lack of trust there's brings about weak foundations which makes any relationship crumble. </p><p>A good partner should posses this honesty and trustworthiness, because they will be needed. Only with these can your relationship survive the trials and tribulations that will undoubtedly come your ways. </p><p>Any genuine relationship is of course a leap of faith at first, you put yourself out there without fully knowing the other person. But with time you become more knowledgeable of each others traits and you need someone who along with knowledge will be able to build a strong trusting relationship with you.. And stick to it! </p><p>Just one moment of lie might ruin decades of trust. </p><p>A way to achieve all these again is by maturity and udersanding, which themselves are some of the other traits one looks for when seeking to engage in a good healthy lasting relationship.</p><p>I hope I've been able to provide satisfactory answers to your question. Cheers.</p>","appDepth":2,"appParentPermlink":"pkqaqfmd5","appParentAuthor":"mrspablo","musingAppId":"aU2p3C3a8N","musingAppVersion":"1.1","musingPostType":"answer"}" |
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