OK, I can understand how you feel but you also have to take into account certain things, for example while I would have no problem with this movement I just can't participate in it, I can't make 7 push ups, I'm sorry I just can't if I were to do seven I would push myself beyond my limits and could possibly get hurt I am not that young. Push ups have always for some reason eluded me I can walk long distances I can do a lot of sit ups, I can do a lot of exercises but not push ups, so don't think everyone who isn't following you is just because they don't care there might be a reason you wouldn't expect.