Being upfront from the get go is the best thing. In relationships, in job interviews, in everything. I think that losing yourself in order to gain something else will always put you at a loss. So having the maturity to be yourself can really help you a lot. I guess this comes with age and experience because when we are very young we want to impress. As times passes by, we can easily realize that can't deceive others and we can't deceive ourselves
I hope that your wife will succeed and get the job she desires. I wish her good luck!
!ENGAGE 20