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Get yourself out of an abusive relationship by alishi

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Get yourself out of an abusive relationship
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<h2>You are young and you are happy and your whole life lies ahead of you. &nbsp;You start seeing boys or girls around you in a different light and you are starting to get interested in being in a relationship.</h2>
<p>Being in a relationship can be the best thing that happens to you, you have never been so happy and everything around you just looks better. &nbsp;Life is a song waiting to be sung everyday.</p>
<p>We all deserve that type of happiness and being in a relationship means you are committed, you have respect for your partner and there is trust and consideration between you.&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>These qualities are not present in an abusive relationship.</strong> &nbsp;Jealousy and breaking down your personality and self-esteem, trying to control you and everything that happens and mistrust is what you will receive in a relationship like this.</p>
<p><strong>There are different forms of how you can be abused. &nbsp;It can either be physical or mentally or sexually.</strong> &nbsp;</p>
<p>If you are in a physical abusive relationship your partner will hit and punch you and you will have the marks to proof it. &nbsp;Emotional/mental abuse is where you have to hear every day how bad you are, how useless and nothing that you do is good enough. &nbsp;This type of abuse does not show physical scars but it will break you down mentally.</p>
<p>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LnOBUm-xEVE</p>
<p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LnOBUm-xEVE">source</a></p>
<p>It is very easy to get trapped in an abusive relationship - you will start believing that it is the way how all relationships are. &nbsp;You will want to leave but after every <em>I am so sorry, I will never do it again </em>you will hope that next time it will be better or you will feel sorry for the abuser, or even start blaming yourself and feel you provoked the abuse. &nbsp;</p>
<p>Abusers have many ways in which they will turn the tables on you and make you feel that you are the one with the problem</p>
<p>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2Xy222pgZ_o</p>
<p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2Xy222pgZ_o">source</a></p>
<p><strong>There are certain sign that you have to notice in order to realize that you are in an abusive relationship.</strong></p>
<p>Nothing ever justifies that a man (or woman - it is not only woman that are being abused) lifts their hand for you. &nbsp;No matter how cross you make them or what you have done. &nbsp;Nobody has the right to hurt you or break you down in any way.</p>
<p>If this ever happens you can be quite sure that it will happen again. &nbsp;If you go back after the first incident, the chances are good that you will stay and it will just get worse.</p>
<p>An abuser will find ways to hurt you, and make you feel bad about yourself.</p>
<p>They will be very jealous and will treat you like you are their possession and you will always have to please and explain where you are or where you have been - which most of the times they will not believe you in any case.</p>
<p>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GMfyJv98N5A</p>
<p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GMfyJv98N5A">source</a></p>
<p>It can be very difficult to get out of an abusive relationship. &nbsp;Maybe you will feel worthless and the abuser will make you feel that you are not worthy of being loved by anybody else. &nbsp;Something else that can play a roll is finances, where you are not able to afford to live on your own.</p>
<p>You must try and find a way to get out of a situation like this, because if you stay you will eventually be destroyed and you will start believing that you are worthless and even worse, you can get hurt real bad or even get killed.</p>
<p>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8AQEK62Jogs</p>
<p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8AQEK62Jogs">source</a></p>
<h2>Always remember - NOBODY if ever so wonderful that they EVER have the right to abuse you in any way. &nbsp;</h2>
<h2>Believe in yourself and know that you deserve better. &nbsp;The first step is to admit that you are in an abusive relationship and then get help</h2>
<p>You can read some extra information <a href="http://www.yourtango.com/experts/wendy-kay/avoid-abusive-relationship-15-signs-abuser-expert">here.</a>&nbsp;</p>
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