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Adulthood can be challenging
> what part of adulthood is hard for you ? This week, we want you to help us understand why you think adulthood is hard, what are the challenges you face as an adult and what do you think would make it a lot more better for you.

Welcome to my blog once more, this topic is a very interesting topic because adulthood is not an easy stage of one's life especially for who we are not born with golden's spoon.

## What is Adulthood?

Adulthood  falls in from the age of 18-35 or more and that is when you will have to start living your life with all seriousness to make a better future for both yourself and the family you are about to build.

A Nigerian singer known as  *Lade* sang a song that shows what adulthood is all about.
The title of the music is *Adulthood na scam* which also means Adulthood is a fraud.
Just look at the lyrics of this song,
  > Nobody go ask if you don chop
Nobody go send you free money
If you no get na you sabi
Adulthood na scam
Oh oh
Panra Panra

> I heard that you’re looking for lade oh
Please don’t judge me
Cos I won’t judge you
Na wetn dem tell me I believe
Na wetn dem tell you you believe
> As I wake up this morning (uhn uhn uhn uhn)
Landlord don call me (uhn uhn uhn uhn)
My padi don ring my phone
say wey that thing wey you promise me
(Lade wey the level na?)

> Eyy Ahhh
Adulthood na scam
You better get am for your mind
(You better know this oh)
You gast to hustle, make a living 24/7
Nobody go ask if you don chop
Nobody go send you free money
If you no get na you sabi
Adulthood na scam
[Link](https://thescoove.africa/adulthood-na-scam-lyrics/)



https://youtu.be/tOfST3K1QFs

### The part of Adulthood that is very difficult for me.

What makes you an Adult is the fact that you are now independent and this is the most difficult part of Adulthood to me, when i left home and started all alone it was hectic but unfortunately i can't go back home anymore because am now an Adult.

Taking responsibility has been another hardest part of adulthood for me because before adulthood no one holds me responsible for any reason but unfortunately as i turn to an adult i have to scale all my decisions because any little mistakes i will personally face the consequences.
The fact that immediately i turned an adult no one cares for me anymore, i even started caring other people while no one cares about me, immediately i complain the next word i will hear is "You are an adult" this makes me feel so bad.


Immediately i became an adult everyone judges me by what i do, my parents believes i should do this or that, unfortunately am the first daughter of my family so my responsibility as the first child is as huge as the mountains, I will always ask "Why did i even become an adult" because adulthood is chocking.

## The challenges i face as an adult.
I always find it challenging when i try so hard to be a good example to my younger ones and others who are seriously looking upto me.
Financial discipline has also been very challenging to me since i became an adult, unfortunately am in my late 30's but am still struggling when it comes to financial discipline.


![](https://images.ecency.com/DQmaTaHXiBjc7DoRghC4RSEKnth8MTUvLD4HNJvocTX7D2F/1711397391896.jpg)

Taking care of myself has been the most difficult challenge i face as an adult, single handedly making wise decision is another challenge that has disturbed me so much.

I started paying for house rent since 2011 till date, every year i work so hard to save money for my house rent, every other things have to wait till my house rent is completed.
Like the lyrics of that music, no body asks if i need assistance and no one is sending me a dine, honestly it has really been challenging.

Making the choice of a marriage partner is also another challenging part of my adulthood, infact i end up making some mistakes on that.

## Can it get better?

Well i believe it will one day get better maybe when am married to a good man or i got a better way to make more money to solve all my problems.

My parents are no more growing  young they are old so am not expecting anything from them but i trust that something good will come my way.

Conclusively I will say that adulthood is a blessing that comes with responsibility and target, if you work hard you will enjoy adulthood.

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@hive.ghana ·
Sometimes the hardest part about adulthood is taking responsibilities and making decisions.
As you said you wouldn’t have anyone to run to for assistance so you’d have to really sit down and think about things because any little mistakes and you’re back to zero. 
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@beauty197 ·
There is no one to run to because you will just hear *You are an adult please face it*
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@oadissin ·
It is a great experience of life
The challenge is not unsurmountable
The lack of communication is the root source of all complication in life
Sincere Dialogue should be center back in all our social interaction
Regards
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@offia66 ·
Adulthood is a lot more challenging than I even expected, it's not easy for one to put their lives together but with consistency they can pull through. 
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@beauty197 ·
Yes it's not easy at all but like you said consistency 😜 because no going back like this.
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@rare-gem ·
I totally agree with all you mentioned. Adulthood can be challenging.
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