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Greetings, Steemians!

The need for honesty and communication has never been bigger than now. A stable and profound relationship is one built on trust and honesty.

It doesn’t matter whether it is a casual acquaintance, a friendship that has lasted for many years, or a romantic courtship, because at the end of the day, one glue holds them all together and that glue is communication; the honest and vulnerable interaction of the two people involved.

Unfortunately, relationships are prone to a dangerous poison called sulking.

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When we begin a relationship with other people, we make an innocent mistake. The mistake that we may have found a person who can finally understand us.

Someone who can know us better than we know ourselves, and someone who will take every hint and relieve us from having to explain ourselves over and over to people because they couldn’t quite touch the idea that we wanted to express.

This is a dangerous tendency and an innocent mistake, as we said. Because however close you feel with the other person in a relationship, you must understand that they cannot ever fully understand you.

When you accept this, you will not only prevent an eventual disappointment, you will also learn that sulking will not help you in the matter.

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People tend to sulk when there is something wrong, but they don’t want to say it out loud. So, they sulk and make faces, staying quiet and irritating the other person, while building up anger because they expect that other person to realize what it is that they are sulking about.

They do not want to tell you what is bothering them, because they expect you to understand it on your own, because deep in their mind, they feel like that you may be the only person that can understand them.

While that is a romantic idea, it is dangerous and can lead to folly.

Because you cannot expect any single person to fully understand you.

No one is in that position. One could even argue that you cannot sometimes understand your own emotions and feelings, so how can we expect other people to understand us better than we understand ourselves?

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In that situation, sulking and holding back emotions when the wise path would be to express them with open honesty, can only lead to irritation and devastation on both sides.

When something is bothering you, make a note to yourself and just say it to the other person. Only with honesty can you build a relationship on respect, trust, and true understanding.

If you really feel like someone should understand you and they are not, why do you have to turn it into such a big deal when you could simply tell them everything? As hard as it can be to hear the truth, your expectations are often ill-founded and illogical.

The next time something is bothering you, try to just say it with absolute honesty and you will not live to regret it!
 
A BIG HUG!

@chbartist

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Important Note!

I have been working very hard on this blog since the beginning. I have a very busy life but I am giving my best and believe me I have shared experiences that I have been coaching thousands of people and I know that the change of the Mindset should be daily. I am already grateful to see you giving upvotes to each other and you can see this with the fact that many already have 8, 9, 10 upvotes. But I'm sure that with the effort of all of us we will see a community with, 40, 50 upvotes and for that everyone should get engaged so we can make it come true. I believe and we can! Resteem...

***Remember Community: Please, if you commented and upvote on a new post I did, please always go back to the previous one because if someone in the community commented lastly because of time zone differences it will be without your upvote and that would not be fair.

You all know the goal! We can reach: 50+ Upvotes each others!

Attention!!!

I'm reading all the meaningful comments from the posts.

I am here making a list of all of you who have helped build this community by voting for each other who write meaningful comments and soon I will respond to everyone with comment and thank you all because I can already see this spirit being built in this Positive Mindset community and help between all of you.

You will receive my upvote in all material and brief comments I will do this in all the posts I am following very closely and I can see what the people who are generous and contribute to this legacy that I am trying to build with all of you can become reality in a short time.

AND

First of all, I would like to thank all of you, who are the most active and proactive in this community, showing your generosity and always with meaningful comments. From now on I will always make a list of these incredible people who have helped to expand our goal of growing ever more.

But I ask that if you are new around here you read many of the previous posts because they make it clear that we are building a community with respect among all, generosity and this blog is for those who really want to start moving their Mindset to positive and moreover be part of the growth of all of us who contribute to this blog. Please do not ask to include you in the list if you are just wanting upvotes because we want here people genuinely attuned to growth and good attitudes and as I have always said with Respect as the basis of all, generosity and positivity!

ABOUT OUR LIST!!! WE NEED GROW THIS LIST! LET'S GO TOGETHER IN THIS COMMUNITY - RESTEEM!

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