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尘归尘,土归土 by davidke20

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尘归尘,土归土
年关到,姑母离开得不是时候。虽然我们海外的同胞,一般都被认为已经失去了传统文化,可是,当遇到这种不幸的事情,奇怪的是连已经信奉基督教的家属都会忽然“避忌” 🤔

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几十个堂兄弟姐妹,今天来送最后一程的,一个手掌数完了。改革宗教会的传道人,总是有一种威逼的讲词。什么神神鬼鬼都被他们搬上桌来。姑母生前最喜欢的两手诗歌,【奇异恩典】和【除你以外】都一样不幸的被改革宗传道牧师用力…表演一番。今天出殡仪式人少得可怜,连弹琴的都没来。带领人竟然敢敢清唱。为了1不让死去的姑姑再棺材里受罪,我也只好硬着头皮跳出去替她弹琴。别说了,几十年没有练琴的人能有那个能耐随耳听就谈的出。我也只是勉勉强强的影和旋式的轻轻配上一点点背景音乐,才总算没有那么枯燥。

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疯恬的阿尔法也算是名车了,毕竟马来西亚要个三四十万的面包车,就是家里必须有米的人才弄得来。我们家一向都不咋地,也没想过有这么一天可以乘阿尔法。外面下着倾盆大雨,仿佛天也在为姑母落泪。年纪大的姑丈看了姑母遗体最后一眼,哭成了泪人,差点儿没晕过去。我们堂兄弟姐妹们合力把姑丈拽进车里不让他再逗留太久。

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雨势越下越猛,我们在车里因为人多,我也不想让空调太温,只能尽量将空调的温度稍微调低,来减少车内的湿度。陪着车外的大雨,眼前的灵车载着我们至亲的亲人。她是我爸的姐姐,她是我的姑母,她是表姐的妈妈,她是姑丈的老婆。很难想象坐在我身后的姑丈此时的心情。我想,尽管我嘴边经常投诉母老虎,要是那天她归西了,我也不知有没姑丈那个能耐去接受。

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还没出到门口,雨量一度严重到挡风玻璃前一片空白,根本看不到路。灵车只好先停在路边,等殡仪师傅安排好车队,雨量稍微小一些我们才出发。可能坐在车内的基督徒用力祈祷,很快的,雨量开始减轻。是碰巧上帝垂听,还是科学理论,我个人没有见解。反正我个人认为,祈祷只是一个“报告“,就好像你跟老板推荐年度销售报告时,就算你跟老板要求发10个月花红,老板也不一定(非常肯定他不会)给你。说到祈祷,我记得有祈祷过让周慧敏当我女朋友。你想一下,上帝答应了那一个的祈祷呢?

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始终,马来西亚的传统还是非常注重的。如果说我们也和老外一样,咱们早就用纸皮箱来装尸体了。姑母的棺材看起来质量还是相当不错的。不过,我们大家都知道这些只不过是一些混合木板,没必要用高级木头来烧。再说,太好的木可真的很耐烧。我们可不是要烹调姑母呀。火化本来就是一门学问。至于不能纸皮箱还有另外一个原因,马来的温度太高。尸体曝露于异常高温,肯定容易发臭。可能永远都追不上国外那种连棺木也省去的仪式。

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由于早上下大雨,我们上山迟了。其他档口已经在做法,准备将尸体送进去。我们这才开始我们的简单仪式,仿佛回到了15个月前老拉叔走的那一幕。当我们大家排队献花时,虽然我一直强调姑母只是太想念她弟弟而赶去探望他,可是一想到他们姐弟俩今生不再我们面前出现时,眼睛一湿,鼻子一酸,拉叔也没忍住泪奔了😭

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一段小插曲,咱们家也有个本地演员。杰哥和拉叔虽然年纪差很多,可是还算谈得来,偶尔周末还会相约去锻炼喝早茶。尽管杰哥人生经历丰富,可是殡仪这一块就可能没那么好经验了。他很疑惑的问,为啥把棺材送进那个孔时,里面没看到火呀?拉叔这时得意的分享,这里前面的小窗口把棺材送进去的不是火化燃烧间,而是另外一个机密室。负责人将会开棺再验证一次,把干冰,首饰等拿出来,免得融化了会融进尸骨。至于,在里面的尸体会被怎么对待,你我最好别探讨了。

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我们几个堂兄弟们陪着姑丈吃个便饭,然后就回来这里等了。表姐说多给几百块钱,多几把风扇把骨灰吹冷。冷却了才容易收起来,这样我们改天才把姑母剩余的骨灰以循环的方式用来种花。
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@carolin77 ·
在忙也是要去送最后一程的
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@davidke20 ·
别人说再忙也要过年
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@celeste413 ·
以后每天跟母老虎说十次我爱你🤟哈哈哈😂
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@davidke20 ·
好。每天做爱十次,每次做完才说。这样以后离别就不会那么痛苦了😌
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@celeste413 ·
😌拉叔牛🐮🐮🐮新年快乐!一定要做到噢!哈哈哈
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@hivebuzz ·
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@love5200 ·
基督徒没有什么避讳,就是春节期间大家都比较忙,不过也还是会去送一程的。
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@davidke20 ·
没几个亲友到场。就我们几个
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@lovelingling ·
姑母平常我们叫姑娘,也属于家里特别亲的亲戚,平常双方家有点事都必须走动的,所以感情一直比较深。

像这类的场合,都会触景生情,拉叔节哀。我觉得人固有一死,活长活短,都是自己的命,一辈子及时行了乐,无憾就行了。
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@davidke20 ·
啊!也有人叫她九姑娘。因为她排行第九的🤣

人固有一死,这个的确。但是人偏偏就是会有难以分离割舍的情怀。远的不说,情侣分手也可以哭个半死。这方面,生离和死别其实没有太大的分别,心里总会有一种“失去”的感觉。
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@marygong77777 · (edited)
亲人的远去,只会让我们更加珍惜现在生活,祝拉叔万事如意!
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@davidke20 ·
人人且有一死,今日不知明日事
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@shawnnft ·
this is cremate right? sorry for your loss man :c
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