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不留余力
看来我的红米8也差不多寿终了。这已经是这个月以来第二次闪退了。写下来的文章没有手动保存,只保留了原来上传的图片。现在要赶去上班,待会儿我去躲在厕所再给大家补上。不好意思。

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話說我家大小姐剛升了大學先修班。為什麼不直接申請本土大學?原因是,她不想留在馬來發展。她說,等這裡的基本學業完成以後,就會到國外去進修或直接上班,以後都不回來了。

![](https://images.ecency.com/DQmdtZWXLzu6h1FkhvYPLUtxxKKDxY5Cs13EU3QJs8gjcvX/img_20250611_062502.jpg)

一般的想法是,把兒女留在身邊防老。而我卻有了另一種想法。她,有著我想要的理想,但她沒有我家老拉叔。她的際遇跟我不同,我還沒滿十八就帶女朋友回家同居了,我的心想到外地去,但是身體是很誠實的。我把女朋友留在家裡,然後把兩個人的前途都毀了。

![](https://images.ecency.com/DQmdRrt6763rtQcjcr67NtTmenRX2aZhymtQZ32gVebBgFg/img_20250611_062613.jpg)

現在看到自己的孩子,我反而覺得應該支持她。不管這個決定是對的、還是錯的,都應該給一個機會她。沒錯,少了她在身邊,我將會“失去”我的一部份。但是,當我細心想了一下,我當年還不是同樣把別人的女兒帶了回家?如果我選,讓我女兒留在本地跟個18不到的男生同居,又或者放飛她到外地生活?

![](https://images.ecency.com/DQmVaVMuA1ALedoNaK9gSZr1CtZ5czjfxraoenoqdxjmCtJ/img_20250611_064812.jpg)

一想到這裡,我就不再猶豫,把一切負面情緒拋開。孩子本來就有他們自己的思想和生活。老人自然的老去、死去是再正常不過的事實。如果我也用傳統思想,將養老的負擔加在孩子的肩上,那就會形成惡性循環。所以,我真的要好好想想,萬一那天我S不去,而母老虎又百年~~鬼佬~~歸老了,我是否該直接去政府的養老院等S。

![](https://images.ecency.com/DQmeQTygm6bWgLVphCx8oG4VzeB24h7Ev83RXQs1A9eCVnF/img_20250611_133138.jpg)

前面太多自己未能接受的可能性。你有聽過格麗斯丁演唱的【一百萬個可能】嗎?這裡附上視頻一則,國內的朋友可能需要科學上網了,再不然你自己去抖音搜吧。

https://youtu.be/hzypdAfwN24?si=BTFy3oesgTA0gg-3

我也在想,是否繼續向前,還是甘於現狀。車子我想了買很久,買了也 不是我開,是給母老虎開,畢竟她老人家開自動變速箱比較適合。而我,年紀也開始有了(簡直是越來越大了),那我是否該考慮把兩台車子都換掉呢?

![](https://images.ecency.com/DQmcURB4iTL8tLZiDqcK3SFBZfDd17SnqQWEQj9hA98ya5Q/img_20250611_wa0004.jpg)

工作那方面,我們都知道這是夕陽工業,只是跟時間比賽,希望AI不要漿早把我代替掉了。五百萬我已經喊了很多次,別人看到都覺得煩。現在半年過去了,別人問我的250萬呢?我也答不上來。工作這一塊,我是很不想繼續向前。就算今年我給得到5百萬,明年他們又會要求七百萬。

![](https://images.ecency.com/DQmbbkADYrvA2WPhPKKnsNAzqrgq3HiutACDTnWJvkbC9Yf/img_20250613_wa0001.jpeg)

但是,這個年代的市調猿幾乎都被代替掉了。真不知道還有那一家公司還會請我這種大叔了。樣貌長相我沒有,身材水桶,屁眼倒還是處女。跟著我這一班同事也是隨時有可能被砍掉的趨勢,不得不擔心我還有沒辦法養著母老虎和小拉拉到小拉拉畢業。

![](https://images.ecency.com/DQmSREKNDFGrCTGJhKkjjdK162jrF3yacTpPLoTFDdmH3Ep/img_20250613_135128.jpg)

話說,上個星期我們開著分行經理的特斯拉,南下去找生意。這車子還真行,大熱天的時候,恆溫空調控制得非常溫暖。大晚上以為可以涼快一下,結果前後差不多八個小時車程跟桑拿沒啥分別。

![](https://images.ecency.com/DQmdv3VkrQ15WGcKmkEP2mZL8VPEswXUWRCYwvxNnwSZWCk/img_20250613_wa0004.jpg)

唯一值得炫耀的是,燃料費用相當實惠。特斯拉的超級充也是25分鐘完事,超快。去年我還差點買了哪吒,幸好習總及時提醒,不然今天就提心吊膽了。
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@angelina6688 ·
旧的不去新的不来~趁今天618  拉叔赶紧买买买
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@davidke20 ·
本来想买哪吒,哪吒就倒台。现在还有阴影。
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@carolin77 ·
同意拉叔的观点,我娃以后有自己的想法,我也不大会阻止,他自己的决定自己去实现就好了
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@dengyanping888 ·
最后一张是拉仔吧!认出来了😄
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@davidke20 ·
我的注册商标橘色衣服和圆滚滚身材能不认出吗?
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@huigezi ·
车子很靓,车旁的人更靓仔。
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@davidke20 ·
既然你这么说,我只好接受了🤣
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@love5200 ·
您女儿有您这样开明的父亲,实属幸运了。
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@marygong77777 ·
拉叔说得对,孩子有自己的思想,不管错误与对,让他去理练,可能这就是人生吧
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@nostalgic1212 ·
孩子長大了會選擇到外面去發展,是一部分人的選擇啦,我之前差點就去澳門駐地做空乘。但是不是每個家長都像金魚蜀黍你這麼想得開的,我的決定當時就遭到了媽媽的強烈反對。

但是不管怎麼樣,父母的擔心是對的,孩子想要出去闖蕩的心也沒有問題
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@sunflor ·
小女孩有自己的想法,有自己的目标👍🏻
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@davidke20 ·
对。让她走她老爸没走过的路吧。
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@zhangyan-123 ·
感觉孩子自己的想法很好,拉叔能尊重孩子的想法,也是位优秀的家长,战胜了大多数人啊!
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@davidke20 ·
你家闪电小伙子也会来到这一环,大人要好好考虑了。
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@zhangyan-123 ·
他现在就已经很多自己想法了,我倒是觉得都可以,他爸爸有时候经常看不惯。我看不惯的只有他房间😂
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