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If you feel helpless there is only ONE solution!
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<h2>Have you ever felt so lost that you don't know which way to go?</h2>
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<p>You feel stressed and overpowered and it literally feels as if the walls are tumbling down all around you. You have this awkward feeling and you don't know if you should laugh or cry, because things can just not get worse than what they are right now. &nbsp;You ask and ask for help and it feels as if no one is listening? Your friends try, but they can't console you. &nbsp;All you want to do is to curl up in a corner and wait for this awful feeling to go away. &nbsp;</p>
<p>I'm sure many of you have felt this way at some point in your life. &nbsp;After my father recently passed away, it took me a few months to get back to where I am today. &nbsp;I have absolute peace with the fact that he left us, and that he is now in a place where there is no more pain and suffering.&nbsp;</p>
<p>Yesterday I felt totally helpless for the first time in a very long time. &nbsp;My mom fell last week Sunday, June 14th, and hurt herself very badly. &nbsp;She bumped her head against the wall and hurt her leg. &nbsp;She had a bump on her head as big as a tennis ball, she couldn't stand on her leg at all. We had to push her in a chair wherever she wanted to go. &nbsp;Obviously I wanted to take her to the hospital immediately but she refused. &nbsp;She was in so much pain, and my heart broke for her but she bluntly refused. &nbsp;The fact that my dad died in that hospital did not help, and I eventually just gave up. How was I supposed to help her if she didn't want to be helped?&nbsp;</p>
<p>I was willing to give it a few days to try and convince her to go for x-rays. &nbsp;She kept the pain under control with her own pain meds, but even that didn't help. She was in terrible pain, and eventually, I just put my foot down and took her to the doctor. &nbsp;This happened on 18 June, and as suspected the doctor ordered her to go for x-rays. &nbsp;She promised she would go but when we got home we were back to square one. &nbsp;</p>
<p>We arranged for a walking frame and moved her bed close to her bathroom, and miraculously she started walking to the bathroom and back. &nbsp;She had less pain, and she said she was sure that it was only a torn muscle and that she was okay.&nbsp;</p>
<p>She was wrong. &nbsp;She lost her balance with the frame and fell again. &nbsp;On the same leg, and she was in tremendous pain. &nbsp;This time I did not take any nonsense, and I took her straight to the emergency room where they discovered that she actually broke her leg in two places.&nbsp;</p>
<p>I have never felt so helpless in my life. &nbsp;With Covid-19 I am not allowed inside the hospital, as the visiting hours have been suspended. &nbsp;So I had no choice but to just leave her. &nbsp;Worst of all she landed opposite the bed where my dad died, so she was terrified and sad and I couldn't do anything for her. &nbsp;She had to go for an operation and yesterday afternoon she went to theatre without anyone being there to support her. &nbsp;</p>
<p><em>Do you know how it feels when you want to be somewhere but you're not allowed to be there?&nbsp;</em></p>
<p>I prayed a lot yesterday and a calmness came over me after I read the following:</p>
<blockquote>&nbsp;Isaiah 43:1 “Don't <strong>fear</strong>, for I have redeemed you; I have called you by name; you are Mine.” &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</blockquote>
<p>I felt calm from the minute she went in until she phoned me to tell me everything was over and it went well.&nbsp;</p>
<p>Did you know that the phrase "fear not" is used nearly 80 times in the Bible? All we have to do is to pray to God and ask HIM to take away our fear. He protects us from evil because it is only evil that can make us live in fear. &nbsp;The enemy decreases our hope.</p>
<p>When you feel afraid and helpless, or you feel that there is no hope, then pray to God and ask HIM for guidance and support. &nbsp;He will give you the strength to carry on. God will never forsake you and even if you cannot feel Him, He is still close. &nbsp;In times of trouble, he carries you where you cannot walk yourself. &nbsp;&nbsp;</p>
<h1>Luke 16:19-31</h1>
<blockquote>&nbsp;19. “There was a rich man who was dressed in purple and fine linen and &nbsp;lived in luxury every day. 20. At his gate was laid a beggar named &nbsp;Lazarus, covered with sores 21. and longing to eat what fell from the &nbsp;rich man’s table. Even the dogs came and licked his sores. 22. “The time &nbsp;came when the beggar died and the angels carried him to Abraham’s side. &nbsp;The rich man also died and was buried. 23. In hell, where he was in torment, he looked up and saw Abraham far away, with Lazarus by his &nbsp;side. 24. So he called to him, ‘Father Abraham, have pity on me and send &nbsp;Lazarus to dip the tip of his finger in water and cool my tongue, &nbsp;because I am in agony in this fire.’ 25. “But Abraham replied, ‘Son, &nbsp;remember that in your lifetime you received your good things, while &nbsp;Lazarus received bad things, but now he is comforted here and you are in &nbsp;agony. 26. And besides all this, between us and you a great chasm has &nbsp;been fixed, so that those who want to go from here to you cannot, nor &nbsp;can anyone cross over from there to us.’ 27. “He answered, ‘Then I beg &nbsp;you, father, send Lazarus to my father’s house, 28. for I have five &nbsp;brothers. Let him warn them, so that they will not also come to this &nbsp;place of torment.’ 29. “Abraham replied, ‘They have Moses and the Prophets; let them listen to them.’ 30. “‘No, father Abraham,’ he said, &nbsp;‘but if someone from the dead goes to them, they will repent.’ 31. “He &nbsp;said to him, ‘If they do not listen to Moses and the Prophets, they will &nbsp;not be convinced even if someone rises from the dead."</blockquote>
<p>I thank God for what He has done for us, to send His only son to come and die for our sins. &nbsp;Without God, we are doomed and if you have not yet accepted God as your savior, you should do it before it is too late! &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>
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@brittandjosie ·
Oh lord she broke her leg in two places she must be in a world of pain, and than those obviously nesseccary covid rules are there so you cant enter the hospital. I totally understand that you lost it there. 
And indeed fear not, all will be well , but it will take time, faith and strenght
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@giantbear ·
Thank you she came home last night.  It was awful because we couldn't visit her but she is happy now!
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@geyzee ·
Thanks for this lovely piece. You wrote as if you knew my mood. I feel this post was clearly written for me. Thanks for the motivation and I've really revived hope from this post. Have a great day ahead
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@giantbear ·
Thank you I am grateful that you read it!
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@joanstewart ·
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We are living though such strange times, yes going to hospital is something most are avoiding at the moment.

Sorry to hear Mom has suffered this injury trying to endure the pain, hopefully now healing from a nasty fall, we become so fragile in older age.

Thoughts are with you, should you wish to chat just give me a call.
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@giantbear ·
Aah Thank YOU @joanstewart I really appreciate you! Just spoke to her.  She broke her leg in two places and they had to put in steel rods to fix it/ whatever you put in a leg....she seems okay it's just bad that no one is there to give her support.
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@joanstewart ·
Very trying times not being able to help out the old folks, some old age homes are allowing certain people in to entertain them in our area, not many and a very small group. 

Hospitals have stopped all visitors which makes it difficult, hopefully soon she will be home again.
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@lizelle ·
Oh no @giantbear, so sorry to hear this, so much worse that it's happening now during this virus! But you're right, we must never forget that God is there holding our hand during times of trouble. Praying that your Mom recovers soon!
She sounds just as stubborn as my mother who despite her last visit in hospital where we learnt her tumour has grown and that's the cause of her balance being so bad, still refuses to use the walker. We hear a call for help every so often to find her down on the floor; she must have strong bones and is tiny so I always say that at least she doesn't have too far to fall, but she's almost 89! Very difficult to see our parents getting frail like that.
Take care and praying for you as well!
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@giantbear ·
My mom is also tiny but she fell so hard I heard her fall upstairs.  She came home yesterday so all good now.  We rented a wheelchair and we have the walker so I put her in my bed and there is no way she can get upstairs on her own now.  Now at least she is close to the kitchen and can move around when she wants to.
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@rynow ·
Yes, prayer is the answer, I hope your mother gets well soon!!
(My wife hurt her , back and I could also not visit her, luckily she is back home now, it is bad if you cannot physically check in.)
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@giantbear ·
Oh gosh, I hope she is okay.  My mom is home now so it will go better from now on.  xx
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