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Coming to terms with it all and not falling into the trap of learned helplessness. by jimbobbill

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Coming to terms with it all and not falling into the trap of learned helplessness.
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I read something the other day about learned helpless that talked about how a captive baby elephant can be tethered with a bit of rope and as hard as it tries, it cannot break free, so it stops trying. It accepts that there is no point trying to break the rope and even when it reaches adulthood and it could easily break the rope (or even chain) it doesn't. 

Yesterday, we took the kids to a indoor soft play area and as we were sitting down watching them play, drinking tea, the conversation started (again) about how we are all living in a false reality and how I think that a lot of people believe they are happy because they are unaware that they are living in world/system that has been built and engineered to make them think so. 

My girlfriend got quite upset about this and started telling me that there was no point talking about any of this stuff and that it is better to be ignorant because there is nothing we can do about it and I should just live in the moment and forget about it all. She told me she isn't interested in looking into the things I look into because it is depressing and it doesn't do any good and just makes me angry and sad.

She's got a point about me getting angry and sad (although the majority of the time I am happy thanks to my family), but it's hard not to feel that way when you believe that famine, war and a lot of the diseases (both mental and physical) that are affecting the citizens of planet earth are not an accident, and are in fact a planned result of policies and decisions being made by a tiny minority of psychopaths who control the world.

She asked me repeatedly, "What can we do about it?" and "What are you doing about it?" and the only answer I could give was that I am trying to raise awareness of the issues in any way I can, including speaking to anyone who will listen (not many) but most importantly by trying to educate our children so that rather than just accept the world as it is they ask questions and do not just believe unquestionably what they are told (and that includes the things I tell them). The problem in my opinion is lack of awareness because how can people fight against something if they are unaware of it?

To give my girlfriend (of 20 years) credit, she doesn't think I am a conspiracy theorist lunatic and believes a lot of what I say and it is partially my fault that she feels there is no point fighting against the powers that should not be considering some of the stuff I've told her.

When someone tells you that a few clans have been shaping the world for centuries and have managed to infiltrate and control pretty much every aspect of our lives it is hard to see a way out, but she's falling into the learned helplessneess trap in my opinion.

We've been programmed (educated) from birth to believe that we are free and we live in a democracy. Countries/leaders/people that try something different are discredited and destroyed while we cheer on the destruction, and it has got to the point now where most people not only believe that they are free, but even if they have a vague idea that things could be better they immediately think that it is pointless to try to do anything about it.

This is learned helplessness in my opinion and it is bullshit. I can understand it but it's still bullshit. People need to realise that the world is only the way it is because we allow to be so. We consent to it by continuing to accept the wars, corruption and destruction of the planet as if these things are out of our control. A system has been constructed around us and a huge amount of effort has been put into ensuring that not too many people are able to see it for what it is.

It is the irony of it all that is the most frustrating thing. We have the power inside of us to end all this shit tomorrow if only a few more percent of the worlds population were able to raise their consciousness and see the world for what it is and what it could be if enough people rejected the status quo. By voting we give consent, by falling for the tricks like 'nationalism' or 'statism' we are divided and therefore unable to see that the divisions are being created and we are being manipulated.

Once a critical mass of people become aware of how the game works and start speaking to others, it's over and a new game can begin where everyone gets to have a say on the rules. The powers that be are desperately trying to make sure that the crititcal mass of awareness isn't reached. They are quite happy for less than 1% of the population to be aware, they can be dismissed as 'conspiracy theorists'. They are no threat and can be managed reasonably effectively but what if that number went up to 2% or 3%? What about 5%?

People are waking up. I see it, I read it and I feel it. It's happening slowly but it's unstoppable. That is why I will not shut up about it.
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@braveheart29 ·
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I couldn't agree more with what you have written. Most I know are blissfully unaware, that they are being manipulated, not unlike lemmings.
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@josephmcconnell ·
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You and your girlfriend both have valid points and feelings about this subject. Never get discouraged because there is always something you can do, however small it may seem to be. Though it seems easier to disregard the evils of the world and remain ignorant....it's not...because you bury the truth and constantly pour energy into remaining unaware. In my opinion, lead by example, be a good person, stand up for yourself and others if you're being oppressed, talk to those that want to listen and are curious, calmly debate with those who disagree, vote with your dollars, do not give in to fear propaganda, do your best & enjoy your life. The world is much more beautiful once you realize that the evil ones controlling it are in the minority. Great thought provoking post. All the best.
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@jimbobbill · (edited)
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Thanks for taking the time to reply Joseph. That's twice you've been kind enough to recognise my internal struggle and helped me out with kind, thoughtful words.  Your reply led to a response from @valued-customer which really made me think too. This sort of thing is what makes Steemit great. Thanks again.
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@josephmcconnell ·
much appreciated @jimbobbill
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@valued-customer · (edited)
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You make excellent points here.  I strongly agree with almost all you say.

However, there is some stuff missing, and amongst that is the fact that there are at least two classes of people that will not oppose the extant regime: those incapable of understanding their manufactured world view is imposed on them, and those that want it to be this way (not to mention those that make it this way).  

These two groups will actively oppose truth seekers, such as OP, and need to be treated accordingly.  They also make up a sufficient portion of the population that they preclude a critical mass of dissenters in agreement with a given solution ( 'The Life of Brian' lampooned this tendency of dissenters to fractionate into groups incapable of coordinating opposition to the point that such fractionation is a strategy used by TPTB to make dissent itself a weapon against revolution (astroturfing, saboteurs, etc...)).

Another matter is a strategy to successfully overthrow the extant regime.  I espouse the BTC strategy, which is to replace the financial structure underpinning the power of the psychopaths with a better one.  This strategy can be, and is applied, in other ways as well, in police power, military might, civil authority, etc...  

As the wealth that fractional reserve banking creates in this world is validated by every transaction undertaken in the structure, with the currencies it is based on, and is dependent entirely upon this validation, BTC (or various other potential currencies) and the financial structure that bypasses the kleptocracy undermines the presumed value of the wealth stolen over centuries.

There is a danger that BTC was created as a 'false flag', so BTC should not be the only currency (nor the financial structure it potentiates) that is used.  KYC regs, in fact, strongly point to this being either the situation, or adoptable by TPTB.  

I have devised a structure that isn't susceptible to KYC, and that cannot be adapted by TPTB (I hope).  Presently I am unable to ascertain whether BTC is in fact a tool of TPTB, but I see it is susceptible to centralization and control, which makes it, alone, inadequate to the task.

Even if BTC can be adopted by TPTB, it will diminish the wealth in extant currencies, and thus still diminish the power of the kleptocracy.

The beauty of attacking the financial structure first is that it requires no 'true believers' in the extant system to agree to attack the system, as most of them are incapable of even perceiving that BTC is an attack.  Part of how they are entrained to support TPTB is avarice, and that is why they can be used against TPTB, even if it isn't what they intend to do.

Whether you find this a sound strategy or not, you might agree that your response lacked the solution to the problem, and that relying on a critical mass of dissent to enable armed resistance is futile, because it is exactly such revolutionary fervor that is used by TPTB to coopt resistance and simply assert control over the new governance setup, after profiting from the violence revolution engenders (see Bolshevism, Nazis, etc.)

Knowing is useless, as OP's gf points out, and this is the basis of learned helplessness, unless it results in the ability to act on that knowledge.

Thanks for your thoughtful comment!

Edit: I found I had not followed you yet, so I fixed that.
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@jimbobbill ·
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Thanks for taking the time to reply to the comment thread with such well thought out and written points. The replies from you and @josephmcconnel have really made me think. You made so many good points that I need to go away and have a good think. I can't even formulate a decent reply because my head is too full up with stuff to consider.

That is a great thing.

Thanks again.
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@josephmcconnell ·
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I cannot disagree with you, at all. You have very valid points...especially with the Monty Python reference. I guess I should have clarified my response. The suggestions I gave were a good starting point for someone feeling disenfranchised. A person has got to gain confidence in themselves and laugh at those trying to oppress you in order to think straight and formulate a long term plan. Personal example, my late grandmother, when she was in her 50's, was in a store as it was robbed by a man wielding a knife. Everyone gave the criminal their wallets or purses, when he came to my grandmother...she refused and started beating him with her purse. All the other customers stood in shock until someone got the police and the man was arrested. TPTB gave us Neo because they want to delude us all into thinking a knight in shining armor will come save us. That's not true. We all have to act. Those that can't see it, the sheep, and those that want to keep it, the wolves, are in the majority...yes. Things are changing though, even as much as we are divided and conquered on a daily basis. There's so much bullshit that people who aren't even close to waking up are going, 'huh? That's weird'. A mass of armed resistance is futile, yes. I'd say that the best case is that the snake eats its own tail. If enough of the wolves realize they're being played by the system they're trying to maintain, they'll start eating their own kind.
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@lyndsaybowes ·
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Really great writing Jim, it brought some tears to my eyes.
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@jimbobbill · (edited)
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Thanks Lyndsay. Appreciated. The comments/discussion between @valued-customer and @josephmcconnel were thought provoking to say the least. I am replying to you first because I have no idea how I am going to reply to such good responses to my post from those guys. Thanks again for your support.
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@wise-old-man ·
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RE: Coming to terms with it all and not falling into the trap of learned helplessness.
_**To believe in something, and not to live it, is dishonest.**_

 \- Mahatma Gandhi
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