Coming Out Of The Shadows Into New, Different And Incomprehensible Realities by josediccus

hive-174578 · @josediccus · Jun 5 '20

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Coming Out Of The Shadows Into New, Different And Incomprehensible Realities

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There's always a time in life, when we're expected to come out of the shadows; become a little less selfish and embrace responsibilities. However this stage is where a lot of people struggle with mental acceptance, the foreboding that they'll never be up to the task. Hence, they'll remain constantly on the run away from their reality which they can hardly influence to be different. Life however isn't something we can enjoy it's good side and stay away from it's  *not so good side*, it's the blend of this two side that makes us round characters


 Now, in man's characteristics, varieties of experiences creates whole new characters and these characters are often embedded deep down with the lessons they taught us, fresh imbues into us, to profer assistance to someone who might find themselves in the similar position which we've once found ourselves. Truth is, there's nothing we've seen that's going to be new to anyone. In life when something bad happens to you, it's either you're stigmatized or you're empowered and it's what it is. 


Truth is, we can't explain the complexities that comes with life, but life is life and we have to *live it* because not doing so might signify stagnancy. It's true that sometimes we just want to be happy, we want to just be ourselves  and we want the things we want no matter how audacious it seems. However getting life to play by our rules is a *no-brainer*. Life's too big to bend to our whims and caprices and rather than we getting life to do what we want, we might be disappointed and end up totally overwhelmed.


Without a doubt, we can't get that privacy we always want because people will poke into our lives, people will destabilise our resolve and they'll make us adjust to the things they say about us. Some people hate that they're changing because of their immediate social environment but the truth is, no matter how strong we are, we deal with different people with contrasting personalities and one way or another we tend to become tilted just so we could cope and deal with the excesses of people. 



At the end of the day, life makes us round characters and pulls us out from the places we want to be and it's either we adjust or we remain stagnant. Without making much fuss about it, we achieve nothing but running away from life, we only thrive when we improvise. People go through things, people suffer and even the most comfortable people go through sleepless nights and that's why we should see life as a combination of everything; the pain, the beauty, the incomprehensible and the bizarre. 


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> **Interested in some more of my works?**



##### [The Dangers And Futility Of Being Driven By Vengeance As A Purpose](https://hive.blog/hive-174578/@josediccus/the-dangers-and-futility-of-being-driven-by-vengeance-as-a-purpose)




##### [Preventing The Self From Hitting The Ultimate Boredom Of "Over-Accomplishment"](https://hive.blog/hive-148441/@josediccus/preventing-the-self-from-hitting-the-ultimate-boredom-of-over-accomplishment)






##### [The Bridge Between "Economic And Politics" In Any Political System Of Governance](https://hive.blog/hive-167922/@josediccus/the-bridge-between-economic-and-politics-in-any-political-system-of-governance)




##### [The Distinctive Nature Of Man And How It Aligns With His Ever Changing Universe.](https://hive.blog/hive-148441/@josediccus/the-distinctive-nature-of-man-and-how-it-aligns-with-his-ever-changing-universe)



##### [Infant Lapsing In The East. (An Original Prose + Poetry)](https://hive.blog/hive-174578/@josediccus/infant-lapsing-in-the-east-an-original-prose-poetry)




##### [Why Do People Blame Their Flaws For Unacceptance Or Disapproval?](https://hive.blog/hive-196037/@josediccus/7heug8lh9i0)


##### [The Malady Of Being Driven Excessively By Dreams And Ambitions](https://hive.blog/hive-174578/@josediccus/the-malady-of-being-driven-excessively-by-dreams-and-ambitions)






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**My name is @Josediccus, a young Nigerian student who is a Vlogger, A Psychologist, Poet And Sports Writer/Analyst. I'm using my contents as a process to create shared meaning as well as create expressions through which people on/off hive can relate. I believe content is a process to be enjoyed and relished and I'm up for any collaborations in my field stated above. Cheers**


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#### @Josediccus, your brother in pen and video ðŸ“·

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*I'm hoping to reach more people who are broken at heart and spirit, so share on any platform or rehive*

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