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One of the world's most successful football managers separated from his wife yesterday after 30 years of marriage. 

So, in court, the women claimed that the separation was due to the man's lack of time and effort to make the marriage work, and the court proceeded to give the woman half of the man's wealth.


 Including his mansion, which was built in one of the most valuable areas in the UK: Manchester. So there were no allegations of infidelity, domestic violence, or other problems, just a lack of time and dedication. 

It makes me wonder what they have been doing for 30 years; perhaps the marriage had died all along and the two parties were simply coexisting, or perhaps the woman became tired of waiting for him to have enough time; perhaps she could not take it anymore and wanted to enjoy marriage once more like her fellow women? 

These are some of the less sinister reasons she chose to divorce.


The man is due to retire soon, in 5 years time, this man would have been retired. He's been in the game since he was young child. He accumulated all of the wealth that likely drew this woman to him in the first place. 

I am not saying she was after money. However, we have seen situations where women would rather choose celebrities over low-key men who are nobodies, not for money, but for popularity, and then accuse these celebrities of cheating on them despite knowing what they were getting into. 

Most women enjoy the idea of being called the wife of a famous person, as well as the respect and popularity that comes with it, but they fail to recognize that there is always a cost in exchange for these things.

 You can not have it both ways, but most women want to, and it is especially bad for calculative and manipulative women who take advantage of society's favoritism to completely ruin a man.

## Motive 


In reality, why divorce a man who will be retired in five years? What is another 5 years when you have already waited 30 years? 

Except you probably knew that if I get half of his wealth, I can ruin him and make his retirement years miserable.


This is a motive. Football requires both physical and mental well-being to excel, and she understands this. A small bump in the road can cause chaos and disaster, and if you love someone, no matter how much "time" they did not have for the marriage, you agreed to marry them in the first place, so you do not want them to fail.



We have all seen Pep Guardiola, who is one of the most mentally strong football managers in the world. You can see him falling to the ground, biting his nails, and expressing physical emotions. He is a serial winner who achieved his success by completely devoting himself to the game.



## Wondering why most successful men do not have long-term marriages?

 It is not because they are completely committed to the game; they simply married people who can not be loyal to what they signed up for.



Most women today want wealth, a handsome partner, or a celebrity, and these people must not cheat and devote their entire lives to marriage. 

In life, we know that we must always make sacrifices and choose the things at the top of our lists of preferences, but most women want everything. They want a secure future with a loving man, regardless of what the man must do to keep the wealth flowing and them happy.

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Money and affluence are things that kills the concept of love. You see a rich Influential person and sometimes greed makes it difficult for you to know if you love them or not, and these greed eventually disappears when it's time to make the necessary sacrifices that's required to make a marriage work. 


## When you're rich it's difficult to find true love


...and this applies to both men and women. I've always told people to find partners when they're not rich or comfortable, because wealth hides the prospective imperfections that a potential marriage is bound to experience. 


People believe they can tolerate anything if there is money in a union, only to realize "oh this is not true." They swear they would go to the ends of the earth for you, but in reality, these emotions are not genuine love.



## Selling Your Soul To The Devil 


Football is a demanding sport, and the amount of wealth you can accumulate is proportional to your level of commitment. It works most of the time. This is why footballers and managers are paid so much. 

Some football players make more money in a week than the average person makes in a year. Some have the best medical care in the world, the best food, fame and affluence, and the list goes on, but the cost of all that money and comfort is exorbitant.

 We don't get everything as humans, and sometimes you need people to navigate life and make it complete for you. 

> A Woman Is Difficult To Please 



In reality, a woman walks away with the wealth of a man she claims never had time for her, despite the fact that the money was the primary reason he never had time in the first place. 

Shouldn't she despise the money for depriving her of years of happiness and compassionship yet she walked away with 50% of the man's wealth. Is not that enough money to provide her with the happiness she has been missing for the past 30 years?



I believe that people enter marriage for reasons that they should not, which is why an individual must be predictive, calculative, smart, and decisive.








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