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Us humans are funny. We put labels on things, people and emotions to name some examples. When we say I am in love with him or her, it is like we imprison ourselves with a binding magic spell. 

As I am well halfway through my 30s and after having lots of volatile relationships in the sense of arguments, its best to stop away for one hour, 12 hours or a couple of days. 

Attachments and expectations associated with our perceptions of love  is unfairly levied, or rather projected, onto our partner. This creates an impossible situation for two lovers to adapt and grow through compassion and understanding as opposed to expectations and demands.

The coupling process requires great sacrifice on the part of you as an individual and you have to be able to give the person wiggle room to grow into the relationship and vice versa.

This takes great faith in a partner, which is why a pact with God is usually entailed through marriage... Aside from legal governmental matters😄.

I hope I made somewhat sense in expressing my opinion....

Any relationship undergoes conflicts but it's how to deal with those conflicts and get better not the other way which usually leads to fights or separation, understanding the reasons behind any conflict can easily make someone better if they manage to work it out, also relations without conflicts seems kinda odd as if anything happens between the couple they usually blame themselves or each other which usually lead to conflicts so if that didn't happen then one of the two who are in the relationship is probably suffering inside.

Having someone just the same as you isn't really good in my opinion either, because if you make a particular mistake you won't find the right person to give you the right solutions, neither helps you be a better person by bringing diversity into their life.

Nice read, thanks for sharing!



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Definitely and I must say this is a very good one from and you a relationship building one and mind you I want to say this does not really need to do with love relationship as you have input here,but with any form of relationship base on my digestion while reading the content.

Just as you have said it is very hard this day to live someone as ourselves, people don't really see the need to try and blend with others people view and opinion which in one way or the other leads to conflict .

Thier is one adage I grow up wit which says;

>Even twins self has different character

Which means that despite the fact that they are given birth to on same day their attitude and character aren't the same, they think band behave in different way.

But in whatever ship we find ourself ,love relationship or Friendship,it is very important that at a point we have disagreement with those we are with so as to enable us know how to managed each other.

Adaptability is one major and essential factor In a relationship cause we are not meant to see things the same way

but of all we must learn how to carry each other along in whatever will are doing and consideration of feeling too Should be put in place,it as a way of helping us to solve issued when their is conflict.

INDONESIA

Pasti dan saya harus mengatakan ini adalah salah satu yang sangat baik dari dan Anda membangun hubungan satu dan pikiran Anda Saya ingin mengatakan ini tidak benar-benar perlu dilakukan dengan hubungan cinta seperti yang Anda masukan di sini, tetapi dengan segala bentuk hubungan berdasarkan saya pencernaan saat membaca konten.

Seperti yang Anda katakan hari ini sangat sulit untuk menjalani seseorang sebagai diri kita sendiri, orang tidak benar-benar melihat kebutuhan untuk mencoba dan berbaur dengan pandangan dan pendapat orang lain yang dalam satu atau lain cara mengarah pada konflik.

Mereka adalah salah satu pepatah saya tumbuh dengan kecerdasan yang mengatakan;

>Bahkan diri kembar memiliki karakter yang berbeda

Artinya meskipun mereka dilahirkan pada hari yang sama sikap dan karakter mereka tidak sama, mereka berpikir band berperilaku dengan cara yang berbeda.

Tetapi dalam kapal apa pun kita menemukan diri kita sendiri, hubungan cinta atau Persahabatan, sangat penting bahwa pada suatu titik kita memiliki ketidaksepakatan dengan orang-orang yang bersama kita sehingga memungkinkan kita tahu bagaimana mengelola satu sama lain.

Adaptasi adalah salah satu faktor utama dan penting dalam suatu hubungan karena kita tidak dimaksudkan untuk melihat sesuatu dengan cara yang sama

tetapi dari semua itu kita harus belajar bagaimana untuk saling bahu membahu dalam apapun yang akan dilakukan dan pertimbangan perasaan juga harus ditempatkan, itu sebagai cara untuk membantu kita menyelesaikan masalah ketika mereka berkonflik



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