Bad times are what good times are made of! I too believe that bad times are like enemies in an RPG or something, once you defeat the enemy (get over it), you'll learn and thus earn gold and experience. This is of course over-simplified but makes sense to me! We can't grow without the falling over now and then. 

Also, the last paragraph is written twice, you should probably change that! 

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I totally agree that bad experiences makes us stronger. It doesn't feel good at the time it's happening, but it has benefits later. Thanks for this (((hugs)))

“Success in life is the result of good judgment. Good judgment is usually the result of experience. Experience is usually the result of bad judgment.” - Tony Robbins

We can either live to avoid the pain...or to seek the pleasure of success. Failures in life are inevitable and it's important to embrace our failures as we do our success. 

Alan Watts explains it best by explaining that people tend to focus on the peaks of life without understanding that they cannot exist without the valleys. It's easier to embrace our failure and low points in life with the understanding that one cannot exist without the other. Our peaks cannot exist without valleys. It is our suffering that allows the opportunity to experience joy. 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I7OOyvCZ9BY&t=25s

Great post @rishan.  Do you think that bad experiences will happen again if we don't learn from them?  Seems like this happens a lot when people don't gain prospective on the bad experiences and life lessons.

Bad experiences sometimes help us to know the reality of the people around us. They make us strong and open a new door for us. A hidden door that we wouldnt discover without any bad experience. They can make us feel week and hurt. But after the weakness, strength will come.

The only time we loose is when we loose the lesson

Taking the challenge to risk failure is the best way to succeed.

That's what growing up is about! I want to share one of my lessons!
My bad experience was in an Adidas shoe Store.
Back then I was looking for a summer job, and I found it there.
One thing that I felt fishy about the store was that the sign "Looking for staff", was always hung at the store window.
So I worked there for 3 months, I was hired under the tittle of "Seller" but that was one of the many jobs they asked me to do.
I painted, cleaned the floors and what not.
In the end they didn't even pay me my full payout.
So you maybe wondering, what was your lesson?
If a company is always looking and rotating staff, RUN FROM THAT PLACE ASAP!

What doesn't kill you, makes you stronger.

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Best practice is something that if done correctly works more often than not.

Best practice is the result of experience and of course experience is what you get when you don't get what you want.

We have to fail to move forward, falling down is a part of standing up.

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Really interestng post

I learnt the greatest lesson of my life with my biggest mistake & although I have forgiven myself for it, I am still living the consequences today... Hoping for the best and have faith that things will be better in the future keep me going everyday!

Very valuable advices in your post and I wish I read it when I was overcoming the trauma of losing my first child..

Every time you go through a hard situation, you will be more matured and confident. hard time is really needed to our life, to understand the surroundings we have. It also helps us to find out the right and real good wisher of our life. We should never frustrated on hard time, just take it easy and learn how to deal the situation like this.

I liked, well done .. good tips
Great post from you
Thanks for sharing‏

We can say that we have truly evolved as a species when we manage to control our emotions!

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