Letting Go to Grow: Breaking Free from the Need for Validation by sayu907

hive-111030 · @sayu907 · 2025-07-03T18:02:15+00:00

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Letting Go to Grow: Breaking Free from the Need for Validation

Throughout our lifee we come across a lot of such things which are actually not going to be much essential to be kept in our lines and they don't also add any value but at the same time extract a bit of it from our life and that is when it get more important to be removing them from our lives as well as their can be a lot of habit as well as their can be things which can fall into this list and there is something that is extremely feeling like a really good essence of freedom once we let them go after a little bit of struggle of removing them from our life and that is one of the best feelings as well.



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Letting Something go or someone go is something that is a really heart process to be coming across and releasing something from our life is surely not that easy because something that was part of online for so long is it going to be going away just overnight and it requires a lot of effort from our side as well as a lot of strength in many terms to make that happen which is not easy at all but on many occasion it becomes a very big necessity to be done which makes it quite important as well.

One of the things that I have slowly started to release from my life is going to be a particular habit that was very much dominant in my mind set which was of the need to be liked by every money because it was something that I always look the best whenever walking into a room I wanted that everyone in that particular room is going to be appreciating my present 10 well as the things that I do and that is something which was a particular Mindset that I develop over the year but it was something that force me to adjust something that was not me and I had to just pretend to keep others appreciating myself.




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Looking back at that habit it feels like I pretended to become someone else which I am not just so that people are going to be appreciating me and that was a kind of urge within myself that was to just get liked from people and that was something which I used to feel is very harmless and is also going to be something that will have certain positive attach to it but it was completely different as I had to put up a filter on my wholeself to shape myself differently completely.

Just like a lot of other things which I don't know how it all started in my life this habit was also something that grew into me from childhood itself and I used to believe that it was something that is going to keep myself in the good books of other people and I try to be accommodating thing in respect to the preferences of people around me and whenever I may people smile it felt very rewarding and this was a habit that gradually grew into my mind set itself and later on it was something that became very much dominating and every action that I took and the decision that I made were based on what people are going to be appreciating.

It is a very tricky think to be doing because people can start to like you as well as also appreciate the effort that you put in but at the same time the cost of anxiety and the things that we are doing out of force not by interest is heavy and all of that is going to be coming on top of us which is something that we don't care about and that pressure can be quite heavy.

Slowly I started to understand that the life we are living is completely Independent and the only people we are going to be making happy is just an individual and that is our self because keeping our self satisfied and Happy should be our only goal and not thinking about other people over own self and the priority which we need to be giving is to be our self rather than anyone else.



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Slowly I started to prioritize myself and thinking about what I would be appreciating in a particular situation and what is going to be the decision that is going to make me happy in that particular situation and slowly this thing completely got rid of that old habit which I used to be keeping other people in front of me and looking forward towards the choices that they would appreciate if I made and this constant approval seeking nature of Mindset of myself that got rid of me.

There have been a lot of positive by this minor adjustment that I need in my mind said which has made me more happy about my self and the honest conversations That I Used To suppress back in the day is something that has taken the front seat now and all of the thing that I portrait to the entire world is the real self of mine and not some filter that I used to put on by censoring my self to just look for the approval from other people around me and all of this has also lifted that pressure of constant performance that I used to be having.

Releasing something is white hard but often it becomes a very big important step that we need to be making and realising something is not working for us and also giving a bit of negative impact is something that we need to be acknowledging very quickly and also take decisions based on that because as late we do to make the decision it is going to be a lot more problematic for us which is something that we need to avoid at all costs.

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