I once saw a quote that said: No matter what you do for your children, when the time comes, they will blame you. As a mother, I try to remember this daily, because somehow it helps me do my best for her. Relationships between parents and children can be very complicated, but I think that if, as parents, we give enough space for love and respect to flow, nothing will be done forcefully, even on these dates. Only accept the gifts, thank them if they feel like showing you how good a father you are. It's difficult not to be able to demonstrate this even when a specific date is required.

I see it more from a biological point of view than an ideological one. A relationship must be symbiotic for there to be mutual benefit. Parasitic relationships, which abound in underdeveloped countries, are rooted in a cultural history that has been perpetuated over time.

I know families in the Third World where it is the interest in what the other has that maintains the relationship, but there is no love in these relationships. Women who become hamsters, having and having children just to keep the man around. I have not experienced this in Canada.

**If we continue to speak in biological terms, men, and women exist to complement each other in every way -perpetuating the species is the most important of all…-**.

I like the thought of that, where we focus on investing in the person as a good foundation basis instead of some other crap. Trust is important but is it top? I would say investing in someone is more because of the implications. It can be highly positive or also highly negative reviews even if the trust is fine. If they don’t want to invest in you then it’s a pretty easy negative to observe. 

I think I want to convince my wife to pick a random date to celebrate Mother’s Day and Father’s Day. That way we keep it fresh and light but also interesting and about the importance of the individual. We thankfully never put too much pressure on the day but getting it away from being a Hallmark holiday is a good thing I think. 

Indeed we have become an artificial and plastic world. We are more selfish and apathetic.   We are not as committed to each other as we once were. The drive is not there for many. Will we ever return in the cycle I do not know. 

Dear @tarazkp !

Does Finland have Father's Day and Mother's Day?

In the world I live in, there are only Parents' Day and Children's Day.

I sensed that you were having some difficulties in your relationship with your wife and daughter!

I hope you understand my awkward English!😃

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Well I'm single and don't have enough knowledge about couple relationships and goals. I'm a student yet and and I didn't want any these type of things. 
But I think respect is more important than love in a relationship if you respect your spouse than you definitely love her/him . Attentions are secondly important we have to stand with our family it's a good in a relationship I think 

Couple relationships are so different, unique and unpredictable. I know couples who take on 50-50 give-and-take formulas and it works; and other couples who give 100% and it doesn't work for them. Where is the secret? I don't know! Maybe communication is the basis of everything, moving forward or rowing towards the same goal. I don't have children, but I imagine that it is a responsibility that we assume until the end. If they appreciate the effort, good; if they don't, something went wrong. Anyway, maybe I am not the most expert to give my opinion. Congratulations and I hope you have a day full of attention and affection. Greetings, my friend

Relationships are difficult. I think the most important thing is that each person can be free... it's like putting your hand open for the bird to land on it if it wants to... if you try to catch it, it will never come back. I heard this a while ago and it seemed wise to me. 

Happy Father's Day 😍

> What if we train our people and they leave?
What if we don't, and they stay?

The answer is Employment Bond, where the employee pays the company if they leave immediately after getting training. So for couples, a prenup?

For Father's day, I would suggest you plan at least a dinner with the family. Waiting for people to celebrate an event [birthday, anniversary, father's day, etc.], and they end up being busy for it or forgetting it can hurt. Sometimes initiating it yourself can save the pain, and works out for everyone. People do it for birthdays; "It's my birthday and I want to treat others". It doesn't have to always be a surprise or getting treated. For Father's day, you're a father, and want to celebrate fatherhood with your children/family.

For the relationship, I agree that it needs effort. Trust is important, investing in each other is important. Basically being there, and putting in the work, to make the relationship work is necessary.