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json_metadata | "{"app":"Musing","appTags":["Question"],"appCategory":"Question","appBody":"<p>When I was a child, my younger sister definitely got the lion's share of attention. By then my parents were more confident, less tentative about how to raise a second child, had already made their \"mistakes\" with me so didn't have to fumble around as much the second time.</p>\n<p>Plus being a girl, she was the one they could dote on.</p>\n<p>So she got more attention than me.</p>\n<p>I don't have any regrets about that, it taught me to be a LOT more independent than she is.</p>","appDepth":2,"appParentPermlink":"fk29msh75","appParentAuthor":"iscobet9ja","musingAppId":"aU2p3C3a8N","musingAppVersion":"1.1","musingPostType":"answer"}" |
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json_metadata | "{"app":"Musing","appTags":["Question"],"appCategory":"Question","appTitle":"Do first born of a family get more attention from parents than the other kids?","appBody":"<p>I was the first born in my family and I got a lot of attention until my brother came on the scene, I then felt left out and jealous of him and started to play up to get attention, there is a saying, any attention is a attention whether it is good or bad.</p>\n<p>I have friends who say the opposite and they think that there old siblings get more attention.</p>\n<p>When our oldest was born back in 2007 me and my wife bought her all new designer clothes, we would spend £100's a month making sure that all her stuff was new and in fashion.</p>\n<p>when our second came along, things changed a little bit, I think it was because there was less money coming into the house but we used to get hand me downs for her as we couldn't afford to get her designer clothes.</p>\n<p>then when our son came in 2017 this has been a little bit of a charity shop deal as we could not afford to buy new for all the kids. </p>\n<p>I have noticed that my oldest feels secure in our house hold and she loves to be here and she gets attention from us all, our middle child seems to be the one left out as our 18 month old takes all the attention away from her.</p>\n<p>Thinking about the question a little better I think it depends on the parents as well, we know some parents that don't care about there kids and give very little if any attention to them.</p>\n<p>It is a horrible thing to see but that is just who they are, when they are here we make a big deal about them to make them feel like they belong in the world.</p>\n<p><br></p>","appDepth":2,"appParentPermlink":"fk29msh75","appParentAuthor":"iscobet9ja","musingAppId":"aU2p3C3a8N","musingAppVersion":"1.1","musingPostType":"answer"}" |
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<p>This definitely varies from culture to culture, tradition and even race. For example in the biblical times first born children are the symbol of a parent's true authenticity. They're entitled to landed properties, special privileges as well as special treatments as well. </p><p>So also let's take a look at the Igbo culture, of the eastern Nigeria in West Africa Their first born children are basically the child that takes responsibilities of replacing their parent if they're absent or maybe dead expecially if they're sons. As a result of this, the parents takes time to focus their attention more on them giving them special privileges as well as placing into their hands matters of urgent attention as well. This definitely shows first born children really gets attention more from their parents more than other sibling. </p><p>However the instances I've sighted had been based on culture and tradition.</p><p>However in a natural phenomenon it may be, it may also not, however in instances where parent have shown more attention to their first born children, it may be because it took them time to have a second and maybe a third child so they're used to treating their first born specially because that's how it's always been when he/she was the only child. I definitely think it depends on the type of parents as well but the percentage are definitely high in most families giving their first born more attention</p>
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