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| json_metadata | "{"app":"Musing","appTags":["love"],"appCategory":"love","appTitle":"Would you forgive an infidelity?","appBody":"<p>I have been in a few relationships in the past before I met my wife, and each of the girls I am talking about cheated on me.</p>\n<p>When it first happened a good friend told me that my girl friend was sleeping with my brother, When I asked them both the guilt on their faces said it all. </p>\n<p>Now my brother I forgave, but the young lady at the time wanted to get back with me so we did, it lasted a week and that was a strain on me as all I kept thinking about was what she was doing when we were not together.</p>\n<p>So I think if that I would say no to this question.</p>\n<p>Once the trust in a relationship is gone there is no building on it, Now if it was an open relationship it would be different as we could both come and go as we pleased. </p>\n<p>:D</p>","appDepth":2,"appParentPermlink":"p3j3zxmdx","appParentAuthor":"palokdnc","musingAppId":"aU2p3C3a8N","musingAppVersion":"1.1","musingPostType":"answer"}" |
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| author | bootylab |
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| json_metadata | "{"app":"Musing","appTags":["love"],"appCategory":"love","appTitle":"Would you forgive an infidelity?","appBody":"<p>I would start first because we agree on what an infidelity really is. In our society, the word is intrinsically linked only to the fact that our partner deceives us by dating another person and having sex with her. But for me infidelity goes much further, and usually is a consequence of a damage already latent in the relationship, and very rarely is the cause.</p>\n<p><br></p>\n<p>Infidelity begins from the moment when your partner no longer feels like being with you, your company begins to be unpleasant, you prefer not to be with you and begins to explore new ways to feel fuller with someone, and begins to think of someone who It is not you and with whom you feel more \"at your ease\". In that moment, it is when infidelity begins, that it is consummated when he takes his thoughts with that other person to the facts. But I insist, it is the product of a damage that already has your relationship and of it, and from that moment you must talk and confront each other.</p>\n<p><br></p>\n<p>I definitely would not forgive an infidelity if I have sought harmony, companionship and love towards my partner and I have not caused an infidelity on her part to take place.</p>\n<p><br></p>\n<p>If my relationship is damaged and she is unfaithful, I probably would not forgive her either, but in this case at least she would understand.</p>","appDepth":2,"appParentPermlink":"p3j3zxmdx","appParentAuthor":"palokdnc","musingAppId":"aU2p3C3a8N","musingAppVersion":"1.1","musingPostType":"answer"}" |
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| author | daan |
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| json_metadata | "{"app":"Musing","appTags":["love"],"appCategory":"love","appTitle":"Would you forgive an infidelity?","appBody":"<p>I'm not sure about that. In general I think that it would be very difficult for me to ever forget or forgive something like that. There might be some rare circumstances where I might be able to forgive it after some time. </p>\n<p>If I knew that it was partially my fault that my partner cheated on me, then I might talk about it and try to work it out. If you're in a committed relationship; there are very little excuses to ever cheat. If things aren't going great with you as a couple, it's both your responsibility to either try and fix the problem or break up. </p>\n<p>Cheating is pretty much inexcusable, since there are other options. I don't know what I would think if it was a one-off thing. I'd probably wouldn't be able to trust my partner ever again. </p>","appDepth":2,"appParentPermlink":"p3j3zxmdx","appParentAuthor":"palokdnc","musingAppId":"aU2p3C3a8N","musingAppVersion":"1.1","musingPostType":"answer"}" |
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| author | dolphinscute |
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| json_metadata | "{"app":"Musing","appTags":["love"],"appCategory":"love","appTitle":"Would you forgive an infidelity?","appBody":"<p>Sure, it is hard to do this because once you are an insider, your wife is unwilling or prepared for the psychology that some day her husband will have \"Bo.\" It is not prepared for psychology so the wife is always \"shocked\" when discovered the truth. A strong shock caused them serious psychological trauma that was not easy to escape. So the question that always comes to mind is, \"Should I forgive my husband for adultery?\" The question is not easy to get answers in a day or two, especially when they can not calm down after the shock has passed.</p>","appDepth":2,"appParentPermlink":"p3j3zxmdx","appParentAuthor":"palokdnc","musingAppId":"aU2p3C3a8N","musingAppVersion":"1.1","musingPostType":"answer"}" |
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| json_metadata | "{"app":"Musing","appTags":["love"],"appCategory":"love","appTitle":"Would you forgive an infidelity?","appBody":"<p>This is a really tough question for me. Infidelity is something irks me whenever I hear about it because I'm a very strong believer and promoter of faithfulness in a relationship as well as the one man one woman policy. I don't see any reason why a man or a woman should cheat on their partners. Why say yes to a person if you know you're theres a possibility that you're going to cheat.</p><p>Seeing as I'm the kind of person that believes in fidelity, it would hurt me so much of a girl that I'm dating g decides to cheat on me. It would absolutely break my heart because the stereotype of men indicate that I'm the one who's supposed to be big on infidelity(stereotypes are rubbish if you ask me)</p><p>The fact that the person broke my trust and went ahead to sleep with another man after I myself have been refusing advances from other women would make me feel so stupid and dumb because I have so many friends who are unfaithful to their women and anytime they see me talking about being with only one woman, they just laugh at me and say I'm a fool.</p><p>I don't think I'd forgive an infidelity, but I'd be willing to try and work things out though, especially if who ever I'm with that does this is actually worth keeping. </p><p>Infidelity is unacceptable in any relationship, whether or not it's a little kiss to a man/woman outside your marriage or full blown sex with them, so unless the person is worth it then I'd quit the relationship as fast as possible.</p>","appDepth":2,"appParentPermlink":"p3j3zxmdx","appParentAuthor":"palokdnc","musingAppId":"aU2p3C3a8N","musingAppVersion":"1.1","musingPostType":"answer"}" |
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