<p>The easiest way to deal with toxic family members is to distance yourself from them. There are so family members that regardless of how hard you may try to be nice to them, they will still  find a way to be toxic. The easiest way to deal with this type of people is to distance yourself from them.</p><p>After letting them know of how hurtful you find their toxic behaviour and they refuse to  change, the best thing to do would be to distance yourself from them. If you happen to find yourself in situation where you always have to be in contact with them, try ignoring their toxicity by not giving them response. The more you ignore them, the more they would get the message. </p>