| json_metadata | "{"app":"Musing","appTags":["Musing","relationship","family","blog","steemit"],"appCategory":"Musing","appTitle":"I am in dilemma and confusion... I think am in love with two people at the same time, how do I decipher who I truly love and which one is ordinary lust?","appBody":"<p>I have been opportune to counsel some people on issues like this. Most times the confusion comes when the both of them posses one character you like for a future partner but even we that , I believe every one has weaknesses and there are one you can tolerate and others you can't.</p><p>I will advise you take a piece of paper and write down the qualities you desire for a future partner. When you are done, also write down attitude you can't bear from a man. Then go ahead to study the characters you have written and compare it between the guys, the one will the better advantages, you go for him.</p><p>Outside your physical desires , you can ask God for a better choice. We humans only judge from the physical appearance but God check the heart and make a perfect suit.</p><p>You can also test their faithfulness .Genuine things are noticed only after passing through a test, even diamonds are tested with fire to authenticate their qualities. Just like the saying \"true friends are noticed during a hard time in a man's life\" so do true friendship.</p><p>Declaimer: am not a relationship counsellor, am saying the piece of advice from experience and knowledge I have gathered from issues relating this</p>","appDepth":2,"appParentPermlink":"fk29zpynx","appParentAuthor":"tuppence","musingAppId":"aU2p3C3a8N","musingAppVersion":"1.1","musingPostType":"answer"}" |
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