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@anonsteve · (edited)
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I am in dilemma and confusion... I think am in love with two people at the same time, how do I decipher who I truly love and which one is ordinary lust?
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@brokemancode ·
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@holovision · (edited)
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I am in dilemma and confusion... I think am in love with two people at the same time, how do I decipher who I truly love and which one is ordinary lust?
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@winarobert · (edited)
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I am in dilemma and confusion... I think am in love with two people at the same time, how do I decipher who I truly love and which one is ordinary lust?
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