RE: The 3 Main Traits for an Ideal Relationship: Warmth-Trustworthiness, Vitality-Attractiveness & Status-Resources by anjkara

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relationships · @anjkara · Feb 24 '18

In terms of the deal breaker. I resonate with this because an apparently trivial event in a shortish relationship set off thoughts towards this being not the type of man I could be with long term. I was being mugged by a giant moth. He just watched as I fought with this beast, never bothered to help. In that moment, in my mind, the relationship was over, but it was a few more months before I actually got rid of him.

Interesting article, as always. Thanks.

Anj :D

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@krnel · Feb 24 '18 (edited)

What was the event? I thought being mugged by giant moth was a metaphor, is that literal? hehe

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@anjkara · Feb 24 '18

Lol it was literal. 

It was summer evening. We were at my flat. A gigantic moth came in through the open window. I was wearing white. You see my problem here :D

He just sat on the couch and watched me wrestle with it. I was terrified. It meant nothing to him, obviously. So, that's when I got the first flag that he's not the an empathic or caring person.

:D

👍 goldie123

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@krnel · Feb 24 '18

Why are you terrified of an insect that can't harm you? Were you in any real danger?

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