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| title | "[ESP/ENG] Mi tesoro mayor: Mi familia /" |
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| body | "<div class="text-justify">Mi nombre es Antonio Manuel Nápoles Rivero, llevo dos meses en Hive y es mi primera publicación en esta comunidad que, para mi tiene una significación muy especial porque aborda temas que tiene que ver con los afectos, los sentimientos, los valores. Esta es una comunidad que valoro y aprecio, como a todas, pero esta es la ternura hecha familia.
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Me ha costado decidirme a escribir aquí porque siento temor a no expresar con palabras lo que significan estos seres especiales en mi vida. Quise esperar un día especial y hoy lo es, porque mi hermano varón está de cumpleaños.
Una pregunta necesaria:
¿Qué es la familia?
En la escuela te enseñan que la familia es la célula básica de la sociedad y eso es verdad. También te dicen que es un grupo de personas con parentesco y lazos de sangres, etc., etc., etc.,
Pero, qué es familia para mí:
Es una mezcla de sentimientos, lazos sanguíneos, ideas, valores, aptitudes, actitudes que identifican a un grupo de personas que las hace tener relaciones interpersonales duraderas, afables y necesarias.
A partir de esta apreciación he identificado varios tipos de familias.
1.Está la familia que te toca, que no escoges, que la vida, el amor de tus padres se hace cómplice y naces tú y tus padres tienen hermanos que se casan y tienen hijos y tus padres tienen padres. **Esa es la familia de sangre**, tan vital y necesaria como el aire que respiras.
2.Está la familia que tú escoges y que decides desarrollar y que viendo los valores en los que te formaron intentas inculcar a los tuyos poniendo tu sello personal. Tienes parejas, decides tener hijos o los adoptas, tienes un hogar y junto a tu pareja velas por el bienestar de ellos. **Esa es la familia que creas**, imprescindible en tu proyecto de vida presente y futura.
3.Está la familia que trabaja contigo, en un círculo más cercano. Estas personas conviven tanto tiempo y en ocasiones más que los que conviven en tu casa. En muchas ocasiones conocen de tus problemas, te ayudan a solucionarlos, emprenden negocios y proyectos de trabajo contigo. Disfrutan tus logros personales y sufren tus fracasos. Esa es la **familia laboral**, necesaria en tu crecimiento personal y profesional.
4.Está la familia compuesta por personas que tienen sentimientos compartidos, ideas, valores que los identifican que siempre están cuando los necesitas. Que sin tener lazos de sangre darían la suya sin miedo a nada, que te cuidan, te apoyan, te defienden. **Esos son los amigos, o familia del corazón** y son imprescindibles en tu desarrollo emocional y afectivo.
5.Está la familia que conoces sin ver, que imaginas y que la sientes sin tocar. Esta familia la conoces por diferentes vías y puedes hablar con ella sin que medie palabra dicha, sin verla y no importa la distancia que medie entre ustedes. **Esta es la familia digital**, tan importante, presente y necesaria.
Y puede que exista y de hecho existen personas que clasifican en más de un tipo de familia y claro que sí, incluso en tres o cuatro y hasta en cinco. Para nada digo que esta sea una clasificación exacta de familia, pero es la mía.
Mi familia, según mi clasificación.
**Mi familia de sangre** está compuesta por mis hermanos, sobrinos, primos, tíos. Mis padres no están físicamente, pero sus enseñanzas y sus almas me acompañan siempre. A esta familia tan importante en mi vida le dedicaré una publicación, al igual que a todos los tipos de familia que conforman mi entorno de vida.
**La familia que creé y desarrollé** está compuesta por mi esposa y sus dos hijos. Yo no pude tener hijos, pero la mujer con la que comparto mi vida, desde hace 25 años me dio la posibilidad de ser padre al dejarme compartir la educación de sus niños, a los cuales me uní cuando tenían 5 y 10 años.
**Mi familia laboral** son mis compañeros de la Dirección Gestión del Conocimiento, del Servicio Geológico de Cuba, área de trabajo que dirijo. Con cada uno de estos compañeros me unen lazos que no se pueden romper porque hemos compartido triunfos y reveses, dolores y alegrías, hemos vencido retos y alegrado almas. Ellos al igual que los compañeros de los lugares en los que he trabajado y he tenido estos lazos profundos constituyen mi familia de trabajo.
**La familia del corazón, los incondicionales, los amigos** es la más pequeña de mis familias porque amigo es la extensión de tu ser sin ser tu hijo o tu padre, es a quien acudes ante un problema y sabes que tendrá solución u hombro seguro, es el que está cuando tú le necesitas. Esos son los imprescindibles y no cualquiera puede ser un amigo.
**La familia digital** es la más numerosa y aunque no vea a la mayoría de sus miembros me van uniendo maneras de hacer y decir; vamos compartiendo gustos y consejos, nos apreciamos, y respetamos. Esta es la familia que tengo en Ecency, Hive, Twitter, WhatsApp, YouTube, Discord; en fin, en toda la comunidad digital que son las redes sociales.
**Una reflexión final**
No sabía que existía la perfección hecha personas, pues, aunque somos imperfectos, esas imperfecciones juntas en los miembros de tu familia se hacen perfectas en algo que se llama Amor.
Por eso y mucho más que no sé cómo plasmar mi familia es mi universo, mi pasión, mi tesoro mayor.</div>
*Todas las fotos fueron tomadas por mi, con mi celular Samsung J2, excepto la blanco y negra que tomó mi padre con una cámra fotográfica.*
ENGLISH
My name is Antonio Manuel Nápoles Rivero, I have been in Hive for two months and this is my first publication in this community which, for me, has a very special significance because it deals with topics that have to do with affection, feelings and values. This is a community that I value and appreciate, like all of them, but this is tenderness made family.
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It has been hard for me to decide to write here because I am afraid of not expressing in words what these special beings mean in my life. I wanted to wait for a special day and today is it, because my baby brother is having a birthday.
A necessary question:
What is family?
In school they teach you that the family is the basic cell of society and that is true. They also tell you that it is a group of people with kinship and blood ties, etc., etc., etc., etc., etc.,
But, what is family to me:
It is a mixture of feelings, blood ties, ideas, values, aptitudes, attitudes that identify a group of people that makes them have lasting, affable and necessary interpersonal relationships.
From this appreciation I have identified several types of families.
1.There is the family that touches you, that you do not choose, that life, the love of your parents becomes an accomplice and you are born and your parents have siblings who marry and have children and your parents have parents. **That is the family of blood, as vital and necessary as the air you breathe.
2.There is the family that you choose and that you decide to develop and that seeing the values in which you were formed you try to instill in yours putting your personal stamp. You have partners, you decide to have children or adopt them, you have a home and together with your partner you watch over their welfare. **That is the family you create, essential in your present and future life project.
3.There is the family that works with you, in a closer circle. These people live with you for as long and sometimes longer than those who live in your home. In many occasions they know about your problems, they help you to solve them, they undertake business and work projects with you. They enjoy your personal achievements and suffer your failures. That is the **work family**, necessary for your personal and professional growth.
4.There is the family composed of people who have shared feelings, ideas, values that identify them and who are always there when you need them. That without having blood ties would give theirs without fear of anything, that take care of you, support you, defend you. **These are the friends, or family of the heart, and they are essential in your emotional and affective development.
5.There is the family that you know without seeing, that you imagine and that you feel without touching. You know this family through different ways and you can talk to them without saying a word, without seeing them and no matter the distance between you. **This is the digital family, so important, present and necessary.
And it may exist and in fact there are people who classify in more than one type of family and of course yes, even in three or four and even five. I am not at all saying that this is an exact classification of family, but it is mine.
**My family, according to my classification.**
**My blood family** consists of my siblings, nephews, nieces, cousins, uncles, aunts and uncles. My parents are not physically here, but their teachings and their souls are always with me. To this very important family in my life I will dedicate a publication, as well as to all the types of family that make up my living environment.
**The family I created and developed** consists of my wife and their two children. I was not able to have children, but the woman with whom I share my life for 25 years gave me the possibility of being a father by letting me share the education of her children, whom I joined when they were 5 and 10 years old.
**My work family** are my colleagues in the Knowledge Management Department of the Geological Survey of Cuba, an area of work that I direct. With each of these colleagues I have unbreakable bonds because we have shared triumphs and setbacks, pains and joys, we have overcome challenges and rejoiced souls. They, as well as the colleagues in the places where I have worked and where I have had these deep ties, constitute my work family.
**The family of the heart, the unconditional, the friends** is the smallest of my families because a friend is the extension of your being without being your son or your father, is the one you turn to when you have a problem and you know that you will have a solution or a safe shoulder, is the one who is there when you need him. Those are the essential ones and not just anyone can be a friend.
**The digital family** is the largest and although I don't see most of its members, they are joining me in ways of doing and saying; we share tastes and advice, we appreciate and respect each other. This is the family I have in Ecency, Hive, Twitter, WhatsApp, YouTube, Discord; in short, in the whole digital community that are the social networks.
**A final thought**
I did not know that there was perfection made people, because, although we are imperfect, those imperfections together in the members of your family become perfect in something that is called Love.
For that reason and much more that I do not know how to express, my family is my universe, my passion, my greatest treasure.
*All photos were taken by me, with my Samsung J2 cell phone, except for the black and white one taken by my father with a camera.*" |
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